Hey yall Ive had soem problems myself but really like to help people out with their problems so ask em questions and i woudl be more than happy to answer them fro u dont be shy at all i will promise not to be rude and respect all of yall's opinions!
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Always,
Julie
E-mail: mrmarmarchi@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: Work at a Stables
Age: 16
AIM: N0tUrPoorThinG
Member Since: November 10, 2005
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I cheated on my ex-boyfriend while we were together. I realized I did not love him, and broke it off with him after that. Well, I still loved him very much and he loved me, so one day we decided to hang out as friends. Well, one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. Well, I realized how much of a mistake that was, so I stopped seeing him or talking to him completely.
Now I found out I am pregnant. I am 19 years old and he is 20. My ex-boyfriend is a really good person and I think he'd make a very good father. If our problems weren't enough, here is the biggest issue.
He is foreign. He is staying in the country on a student visa. He will have to leave in 6 months unless we get married. I desperately don't want him to leave. Not for me, but for our future child. The flight to his country and back to visit would be 1200 dollars per trip. Everyone is pressuring us to get married so he can fulfill his fatherly duties and our child could have both parents around. We've research all possible ways he could stay, and it basically comes down to him marrying me.
What should I do? I can't see myself being with this person forever, but I can't see my child only getting to see his father once a year or so. I am seriously thinking about marrying him until he becomes a citizen, and then divorcing. Ugh, it's so frustrating, I don't even want to think about it!!! (link)
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wow thats a really difficult decision basicly if you dont love this person you shoudl shouldnt marry him you can always find another father figure just because he decided not not be safe and some of his sperm made a baby with you doesnt mean hes a father hes the daddy a father is someone who will a raise a child always love you and always be tehre just bc you think u have to have him tehre doesnt mean it like that you just have to leave it up to your heart and it will come to you. You cant amke thsi person love you and u cant make yourself love him fro a child even if comes down to no father i bet you coudl do great on your own!
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Okay so theres this guy, and i have liked him for the longest time. He knows too but he acts like he just doesnt care. He tells me he likes me and says all this cute stuff then the next day he tells me he doesnt like me. He always hurts me but i would still do anything to be with him. He said the reason why he doesnt like me is cause i have a rep. of being a slut but it really isnt true at all. How do i get him to like me, and know the rep. isnt ture?? Im 14 (link)
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ok well honestly first off you have to try and change that repp bc evben if one person thinks that thats not good and second stop acting needy bc it just makes teh guy feel in control! and plus if hes is worried about ur rep so much y is this guy worth it??
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OK, the story goes like this. I go out with my ex-girlfriend and she says she won't ever leave me, and BANG. A week later she leaves me(she's f/17). I tried to call her...a lot for two weeks. I then decide not to contact her anymore but it's been two months and i'm still not over her. Must i contact her or must i just accept that she will never come back? (link)
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Ok honestly the more you try and push on her for her to come back teh more she will push away you are showing her taht you are still there so she doesnt want you if you show here that you arent there and you have a great life going and honestly your just ebtter off without her then she will want you but honestly do you really want her back i mean if shes gunna b like that to u shes not worth it just lose her but if you really cant try that and tell me how it works out i hope everything goes better let me know!
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A like a girl alot but dont really like the way she dresses and im kinda trying to chance her style and i guess she figured out i was trying to do that and gave me a piece of paper with these words on it plz tell me what it means bc i cant understand it...?
KATHERINA.
Go, fool, and whom thou keep'st command.
PETRUCHIO.
Did ever Dian so become a grove
As Kate this chamber with her princely gait?
O! be thou Dian, and let her be Kate,
And then let Kate be chaste, and Dian sportful!
KATHERINA.
Where did you study all this goodly speech?
PETRUCHIO.
It is extempore, from my mother-wit.
KATHERINA.
A witty mother! witless else her son.
PETRUCHIO.
Am I not wise?
KATHERINA.
Yes; keep you warm.
PETRUCHIO.
Marry, so I mean, sweet Katherine, in thy bed;
And therefore, setting all this chat aside,
Thus in plain terms: your father hath consented
That you shall be my wife your dowry 'greed on;
And will you, nill you, I will marry you.
Now, Kate, I am a husband for your turn;
For, by this light, whereby I see thy beauty,--
Thy beauty that doth make me like thee well,--
Thou must be married to no man but me;
For I am he am born to tame you, Kate,
And bring you from a wild Kate to a Kate
Conformable as other household Kates.
Here comes your father. Never make denial;
I must and will have Katherine to my wife.
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Those lines are from a play by shakespear. The play is called taming of the shrew. By giving you those words she is trying to imply that the play is about breaking a person taming them making them into a lesser verison of themselfves. Pertrucio wanted to change Kate but only out of love he wante to make her bitterness go away but if you really Love/like somebody you wadnt want to change them and thats what that girl is trying to tell you...
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