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Ok so Im a freshman and theres a new kid whos a sophmore, Macon, And he rides my bus and is in two of my classes on the other side of the room in one. Everyone thinks hes annoying becasue he asks a lot of stupid questions (beiing sarcastic) in class but i think its kinda funny. Hes kinda short but really cute. And idk if he even notices me besides when i get on the bus.. but i thought i saw him looking at me in spainish. I dont think i can ever EVER work up the nerve to talk to him. Im trying to look interested like today in class he said something and everyone laughed and i was laughing and i looked at him and smiled.. i think he saw. Hes also in my lunch on day 1 (theres 6 diff days) But .. I dunno everyone thinks hes stupid and i dont and i like him a lot but i dont think ill ever be able to talk to him unless he says something first ! AHHH ! WHAT TO DO WHAT TO DO !? (link)
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Hi, I think that no matter what everyone says or thinks you should follow your heart. The guy that you have a crush on sounds like a pretty decent guy who speaks his mind. Maybe eveyone else is not as outspoken as him and plain envy him for this. If you fekk you cn;t work up the nerve to speak to him, you shouldn't wait around and tourture yourself. You can write him a note asking him if he wants to hang out, aka grad a bite after school or go out on the weekend. If you have his email, you could do that over the email. Admit this: passing over a note is much easier than saying to your crushs' face you like him. On the other hand, he might be shy to talk to you and a note from you might be the answer to his prayers. Don't think that it's not romantic because he didn't talk to you first, you will have plenty of romantic moments to enjoy once your relationship takes off! Good Luck!
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I dated a guy for a few months last year. Things moved way to fast and I found out that I really didn’t like who he was, he was lazy and sports obsessed and treated me like a child. The last straw was a very racist comment he made. I broke up with him almost 6 months ago.
The problem is he still calls me, sends me text messages and insists he wants to talk to me for ‘closure’ and to ‘explain himself’ or just to hear the sound of voice agian. I don’t even like the guy, he kinda creeps me out and have no desire to speak to him ever again. Do I owe him this? Or is okay to just keep saying that I don’t want to talk to him and want him to leave me alone?
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Hi,
I actually was in the same situation as you once. I date a guy and then things turned in the wrong direction and I had the same desire as you not to ever see him or talk to him again. He kept contacting me and asking me if we could meet one more time, etc. I felt sorry for him and decided to give him a chance to "explain himself" although I had no desire to meet with him. That was a HUGE MISTAKE!!!! I met him at a cafe, I listened to what he had to say, got up and walked out. He followed me to where I lived after my pleas to leave me alone and pinned me up against the wall of my building threatening to do something to me if I didn't stay and talk to him more. My suggestion would be to not talk to the guy. If he doesn't get you now, he never will. And by seeing him and telling him in person that you don't want to be with him will anger him even more.
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