How do I bring up the questin of Will you go out with me? in a conversation?
take it slow. and relax. get up enough courage and ask. it can't be as hard as it seems. say something like "i've liked you for a while. i was wondering would you go out with me" he should say yes if he feels the same. :)
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yeah i am 12 and like all of my friends have had a boyfriend but me.i mean i went out with this one guy for a day but that doesn't count..&& i am always going threw the drama of my friends and their boyfriends..like my friend will say that she is in love with her boyfriend and that she wants her first kiss with him and stuff but i just sometimes want that to be me saying that a guy to love to hod hands with and stuff like that..well idk i am just afriad that i won't have my first kiss till i am like 20..what should i do?
don't worry about getting your first kiss. you don't want the guy to be a complete jerk. so dont rush it. good things come to those who wait. woah i sound like a cookie thing! lol anyways just relax. trying hooking up with a total cutie and get to know him and if the time is right you will have your first kiss!
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me and my boyfriend talk a whole lot on the phone and stuff but we never talk at school.what should i do??
try talking to him in school. or confront him about it. say something like "we always talk on the phone but never in school why is that" i don't really know.. do his friends have anything to about him not talking? cause that maybe it too. i really dont know what to tell you but i hope i helped. :)
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i really like this guy but i just found out he's a pothead. and my attitude toward it is that if he isnt high around me and just decides to keep it to himself [i heard it from his friend not him but i had already suspected] then i dont care. but it does really bother me that he'd lie to me about it and tell me that he's only tried it a few times over the summer, plus just the fact that he does smoke pot! should i stop talking to him or just act like i dont know and keep going with my "ask no questions" charade?
ask questions! make him tell you the truth!
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do u love me......i need to know.....because i think i love u......ur smart and pretty and u give really good advice!!!! Please answer me as soon as possible!
um who is this?
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hey i have a problem i lik this grl and my best friend likes her but he doesnt think i no and he asks her out right after me and she says yes to him shoul i go do something about it or wht im confused
i think you should mm see how it works out with your friend and this girl. i mean do you think he is gonna hurt her or something. maybe you should wait and see how it works out for them cause you never really know. i hope i helped :) thanks for the message.
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there's this guy i like him he likes me i have a feeling i might have my FIRST kiss with him and tips.
Just relax. If you are worried about bad breath or anything really quick have a tic tac. But for this first kiss you should put your arms arounds his neck. But the key thing is relax. Good luck with that first kiss and I hope I helped (:
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So, my school is sort of small, and almost no one has been kissed (or at least my friends) but I feel like I'll be a complete retard if I'm not kissed this year!
And, I want to be kissed.. but I want it to be somebody I like. But, what if I don't get kissed until I'm, like, 17?!! I'm worried.
Just relax. Many people I know still haven't had there first kiss. Yes, the moment you will always remember.. but you should wait until the time is right. And don't feel bad either. When the time is right it will happen. So don't sweat it. Thanks for the question. Hope I helped (:
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Ok i am in high school already and i havent had a boyfriend in my whole life!!! I dont kno wat to do cuz i really want a boyfriend.....im not desperate but i dont even kno of ne guys that like me at my school! My friends all reasure me that the right guy will come but im not so sure!
Half of my friends all talk about how their boyfriends do the most romantic and sweet things for them and it makes me upset because i dont have a guy that is crazy about me or that will do sweet things for me!!!! WAT SHOULD I DO??????
Well first off.. I am sure you are pretty. And you have alot of good things going for you. You're friends are right about that though. The right guy will come in time. Don't stress yourself out over it. I mean realitionshipes are even harder to deal with then dealing with the pressure of being single. Try to start a converation with a boy you are crushing on and then act natural. Just don't be like preppy and perky cause guys hate that. So just be yourself and relax. Take it slow. Hope I helped you out. Let me know who things go. And thanks for the question. (:
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Don't you hate it when you like this totally smart, atheletic, cute guy but he's slightly out of your range?
That's my problem.
I completely adore him - heck, I'll go as far to say that I OBSESS over the guy (even though he can be a complete jerk to some people.) But.. he's just so cute and between you and me - he smells really good!
Anyways, you seem outgoing - you have an advice column; that must take some guts to start! So, do you think you could give me some advice on talking to the guy and not having him think I'm a complete idiot?
I really want to be outgoing. *sigh* :'(
Well to start a convo with this boy.. just start out with hi or how is it going?. Ya, it is a little cheesey but it will start the convo. Then maybe say you look good today or like maybe ask him how things in his life are. Just don't think about him being your crush think of him as like you were talking to any of your guy friends. I hoped I helped you (: Thanks, for the question.
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