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hi mal,
well i was wondering about this. there is this person that i absolutely adore. like this person is amazing! and he is just a friend right now, but i was wondering if i am in love with him. that thought has been bugging me. what do you think? can i fall in love when im only in junior high?
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dear concerned~
of course you can fall in love in junior high! but you can only make sure that it is love by asking god. if you pray and ask god questions, he WILL answer! i know what it is like to completely adore someone! i've been there before!Ü it is an amazing feeling to be in love! and it is usually very annoying if you are just friends...especially when you want it to be more than that. YOU can't figure out if you are in love or not, without god there helping you out. you can only be positive that you are in love by asking god through prayer. he'll answer. he answered me! if you want you can talk to me sometime and we can pray together. i would be completely honored to pray with you!!!:D
and remember...don't douobt god's love, or god's blessing!
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i like this guy and me and him have been going on and off for like 6 months and then i finally dumbed him for good then summer came and we stoped being friends and that hurt so much becuz i loved him so much but then i went to this place with my mom for 2 weeks and made some new friends and i met this kid and he was just so nice and sweet and me and him really hit it off and we started dating for the 2 weeks and i then found out that hes going to my skool so now im real happy but everybody keeps asking me oh do u still like well call him "fred" and i go no but today my friend steve asked me do u still like "fred" and i went yeah so now i dont know if i should just stay with my b/f becuz i love him too hes just so hott and sweet to me and everything or if i should dump him and go back out with "fred" im so confused someone please help me asap
im 14 and im a gurl and i need help (link)
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alright. i have been in this situation before. it's a very tough situation! but the first thing to do is pray! prayer can't do anything except help! god can help you sort out all of your emotions and help you know what exactly you need to do. but if you only like your boyfriend because he's hot, then you don't really love him. what i did, was write out all of the qualities that I SAW in them each. and then i soon realized that only one of them really cut it to be my boyfriend. or it might not be that simple, and you might just need to take a break from dating altogether for awhile. then, you can sort out all of your emotions and date the guy you really do love. and hey, by then, you might have met someone even more awesome! but always remember...no guy is ever worth your tears!!! and when you find one that is, he won't make you cry. ((**mAlloRyJaNe**))
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