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Hi, I'm a young 50 year old father of three (two sons one 5 and one 21, and a daughter of 31) from Romford, England. I have a lot of experience of life from both the good and bad sides, the good side when I was singing in bands almost every night and my life was one long party, and the bad side having to admit I'm an alcoholic and doing a hard rehab/detox programme (sober for 10 years now) then having a heart attack and a broken marriage to deal with. I am now in a good place in my own mind and want to help others as much as I am able to.
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Im a girl, so i already know i'll suck more at guitar then guys. But, i'd like to start getting into guitars because music is one of my passions. I have long slender fingers so will that be an advantage when playing guitar? Okay well my question is, i want to play the song "vermilion pt. 2" on guitar, and I think its acoustic. I looked up the tabs. It said acoustic i think. Well anyways i was looking up acoustic guitars on google, and i also looked up electric guitars. And acoustic guitars are ugly! So, whats the difference between acoustic and electric guitars? Electric looks easier, but i dont know much when it comes to guitar. Please let me know as much info as possible, from experience would be even better. Im a beginner (only played like a couple times and sucked). Thanks so much this is something i wanna get into. THANKS (link)
Firstly, don't start out thinking that because you are a girl you'll be any better or worse than a guy at playing guitar. There are many good female bands and guitarists around. Yes having long, slender fingers is an advantage when playing guitar because you can get your hands into the shapes to play chords easier and will probably find it easier to play solos.

The main thing about acoustic guitars is that they are big and bulky, but not all of them are (you may need to look hard to find them but you can get slimline acoustic guitars with necks basically the same as an electric), you might find it better to look at electro-acoustic (or semi-acoustic) guitars, they look better and are styled to handle more like electric guitars than acoustic ones.

If you really want to get into this don't let anyone or anything put you off and take some lessons and practice.

Good luck

Kizlode


does anyone have any idea where to get a plain guitar pick, but in pearl style?? i need them by at least the 11th of Jan. the latest. (link)
Not knowing exactly where you are means I can't give you an exact location to get the picks from, but you should be able to get the m from any local guitar shop or try looking on line for guitar accessories shops. I hope this helps.

Kizlode


I have kind of an odd question. My friend told me that if you listen to Stairway to Heaven backwards, its satanic messages. I was skeptical and my parents told me it wasnt true. I had so many nightmares that night, thinking about what it sounded like, that when I woke up this morning, I turned on my computer and tried to find any and every piece of info I could about "backmasking" or listening to songs in reverse to hear satanic messages. I was really scared, but interested. It was all I thought about the WHOLE day, and Im not even kidding. Im afraid because I cant get the song Stairway to Heaven backwards which is "Oh My sweet Satan" and things like that out of my head! what do i do?! And also, is it REAL? Please somebody give me more information about backmasking. Ive looked up every google site on it. But, I want someone to give it to me in their own words. I will give everyone a 5 who has a good answer! (link)
The whole backmasking thing is rubbish. Since it was first claimed that bands put so called satanic messages backwards in their songs, some bands have put silly messages backwards in songs just to poke fun at the idiots that keep claiming that messages from the devil are hidden on records. It was shown up by Judas Priest when they were taken to court because one of their fans committed suicide, the family claimed that there was a backmasked message on one of Judas Priests records and this caused their son to kill himself. When the families lawyer played some of the tracks backwards (and after telling the people in the court what it was they were going to hear) some people said they could hear the message, but Rob Halford (Judas Priests singer) played some of the tracks backwards and found completely different 'hidden messages' (which were caused purely by chance) one of which was 'You ask for a peppermint and I've got one', the judge dismissed the case because it was all rubbish.

The main thing you have to ask yourself is this, if it was true and as effective as these people claim then don't you think that big corporations (like Coke and Pepsi) would be using it to sell more of their products?

Don't get freaked out by it, just forget about it.

Kizlode


Does anyone know of any online sites where I can learn how to play my guitar for free? I would really seriously appriciate it more than anything! (link)
You would probably be better getting a book to learn from, you should be able to get them fairly cheeply from any music store or possibly from a library (if they don't have one in the library ask them if they can get one for you).

I don't know how good they are but these sites might help:

http://www.play-the-guitar.net/browse/free-beginers-guitar-lessons.html

http://www.cheap-guitar-lessons.net/

http://www.downloadableproducts.com/Guitar/guitar-lessons-for-beginers.htm

http://www.learn-to-play-guitar.info/learn/guitar-lessons-for-beginers/

http://www.cheap-guitar-lessons.org/free-online-guitar-lessons-for-beginers.htm

http://www.flupejac.com/free-beginers-guitar-lessons.html

I hope this helps

Kizlode.


Well I have an audition coming up and i planned on singing Mary J. Blige's song, "I'm Goin' Down" but i'm having trouble finding piano music for it, does anyone know a place where i can find it (preferably online) thanks! i rate! (link)
I don't know if they will have the song you're looking for but this site is really good for on-line sheet music:

http://www.sheetmusicdirect.com/SelectCountry.aspx?referrer=http://www.sheetmusicdirect.com/Default.aspx

Hope this helps

Kizlode


Hey, I'm making a CD of Christmas songs but from alternative, metal, rock ..ect. bands or groups. An example would be Thrice - Carol of the Bells.
Do you guys know any others? All answers are appreciated. Thank you! (link)
Here's few I know:

Billy Idol - Yellin' at the Xmas tree.
Death Cab For Cutie - Christmas (baby please come home)
First to Last - 12 days of XXXmas
Trans-siberian Orchestra - Boughs of holly
Within Temptation - Gothic Christmas


who sings that song that goes,
take me away take me far away from here i will run with you dont be afraid call my name and we will stare into the sun we will run (link)
The song is called Take Me Away and it's be Fefe Dobson, but I think you might have got some of the lyrics wrong acording to one of the lyric sites I use, it goes:-

Take me away,
Take me far away from here
I will run with you
Don't be afraid
Navigate and I will steer
Into the sun, we will run

If you want a copy of the full lyrics you can get them from http://www.lyricsondemand.com/f/fefedobsonlyrics/takemeawaylyrics.html

Hope this helps

Kizlode


hey theres a song on bridget jones diary, it goes something like all by myself, dont wanna be all by myself anymoe... i have tried looking up under all by myself but i cnt find it and i dont knwo who sang it. could u help me find the name of the song and the singer please? x (link)
The song is called All By Myself and it was originally by Eric Carmen (but it has been covered by a few other people)I don't know what version is on the Bridget Jones soundtrack as I haven't seen the film. You could try looking up the film soundtrack on the internet.


Hey, i was just wondering if anybody knew of any reliable places where i could download free music..meaning they don't have spyware, and very little viruses. I tried limewire and it messed up my computer..Thanks! (link)
These two sites are pretty good for downloading music, I've used them both a lot and have never had any problems.

http://www.mp3-center.org

http://hype.non-standard.net/



I was wondering if anyone knew a few good websites besides Hot Topic that sold Greenday shirts at a cheap price. I would appreciate it if anyone answers this. I'll rate 5's for good websites! (link)
I've used thise site before, they do a good mixture of band stuff, not sure how cheep they are compaired to other sites though:

http://www.tshirtsville.com/acatalog/


Does anyone know of any sites where I can find sweat shirts or hoodies of bands besides their own sites? Some of the bands I want are:

Underoath
Fall Out Boy
From First to Last
Hawthorne Heights
All-American Rejects
Taking Back Sunday

Those are just some. But if you know of any websites that you can buy band clothing from besides their own sites id greatly appreciate it. Thank you so much you guys! (link)
There are quite a few places you can get band t-shirts/hoodies and stuff on line. This one I've used and they've got a big mixture

http://www.tshirtsville.com/acatalog/


here is an easy five if u can tell me how to download music and where to get the music from for my mp3 player.i want free music and i just got my mp3 player today so im new to this.
thanks! (link)
It depends on what type of music youre looking for. There are some places to download mp3's for free, try this one it's got a pretty good mixture of music and is updated every day

http://hype.non-standard.net/




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