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I think I'm pretty.. but I stand next to girls at my school and my cousins who can be so beautiful, and I feel as if nothing stands out about me.

I'm pale.. like not disgustingly pale its just I dont tan easily.. and I have light-brown hair, and brown eyes.. and I mean sounds boring, but I admit I like how I look when I have makeup on, and sometimes without it. I mean, I'm not the makeup type. I skateboard and dont wear dresses and stuff and say I hate makeup and all that.. but the truth is I just want to stand out.

I have thick hair.. how can I make it look thinner? Should I get it permanately straightened or are their any special products that last and dont leave my hair greasy and stiff?

Also, what mascara is good? Sometimes I wear great lash.. and I rarely wear even THAT for makeup.. or eyeliner.. I mean I'm just trying to stand out that ONE DAY so people know how beautiful I can really be. It sucks because I'm a good person, and people say Im beautiful or pretty I just dont SEE it right now ya know?

Also, how can I lose weight around my thighs and butt area? I mean Im not fat at all but I feel a bit unproportioned..

I just wanna stand out.. and be confident..
any tips??

Uh , i'm sorry but i can't tell you that "everyone is beautiful in their own way" , cos face it : its human ... if you're butt ugly , then you ARE butt ugly .But then how do people see each other ? Think about it , and you will realise that the most outstanding and attractive are usually really confident . It doesn't matter that you aren't the most gorgeous girl in the world . . it's all about confidence . KNOW that you are beautiful ..and let everyone else know that too . =D STRUT THAT STUFF !
rock on ,
*wondering*

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there's this guy at school and he always like bumps into me, and says sorry. before i didn't think anything of it, but now it's happening like almost all the time! does he like me? or is this just some weird coincidence?!

My guess is that he likes you .. it is quite unlikely that this guy is like really clumsy and always bumps into YOU . I think it's nice of him to say sorry ,he must be pretty decent .I really dislike those obnoxious boys who bump into you on purpose and attempt to feel you up or get close . If you think he's cute or just think he's okay , it might be a good idea to start a conversation with him the next time he bumps into you . Maybe you can start by saying "it's alright"and smile, when he bumps into you or says sorry . You can also sort of walk with him in the same direction. You can then start asking questions like : "hey , what's your name ? " and maybe joke around with him for a while . =D who knows , you might just find another friend or perhaps even lover in him ! Feel free to drop a question in my inbox if you want more advice k ? Good luck with this , and Gods Bless . (: *Wondering*

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ok so i like this guy ALOT we hold hands at school and are togteher all the time. he likes me alot too. hes so sweet. but we BOTH jsut got out of long relationships and don't want a relationship right now. but its practically like we are going out. and EVERYONE is asking BOTH of us.. "do you like her??" "do you like him??" "i heard u like him..are you going out!?" like seriously soo much people...people i barely even KNOW..its getting soo annoying. i usualy just say yea i do...but its getting super annoying. how can this stop..i dont want to be rude or make it seem like i dont like him but people need to mind their own freaking business!

haha don't get too pissed k ? if you saw two people holding hands , you would most probably ask them if they liked each other etc. the problem starts when everyone thinks this way , and everyone asks , and the number of curious/annoying ppl rises and rises . And of course , people DO need to mind their own business . . hmm . a suggestion would be to "go public" or somehow get everyone to know that you like him and he likes you . That way , you wouldn't be rude and people would stop asking .If you decide not to do this,and people carry on annoying you , just smile really sweetly and be all : "i love him " . That way , news would travel fast that you really do like him , and people would stop being busybody and stop doubting that you two like each other . Cos mostly , they just want to make sure if you two do like each other and that its not just a rumor . the most important thing is not to hide or try to draw attention away from yourself . If you do , more people are likely to think that you are hiding something or lying when you're not ! Hope i've helped , and good luck with your problem . Gods bless , *wondering*

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