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I'm Erin and I am 18 years old, I turn 19 in May. In the past year, I've moved over eleven times, I have experienced all of the lows life has to offer, and I have given my advice to many people I have come accross. I helped them in the past, so why can't I help you? advice
me and my bf were texting as usual and i noticed my text messages stopped sending. So im like "well okay his battery probably died" So i wait a while, then comes night, HERES MORNING.
Still no sign of him, what could have possibly happened??
Whatever you do, don't panic just yet. Sometimes people lose their phones or their phones die and they don't have their charger. it could be a number of things like that, or he's fallen asleep. If there's no txts by the end of the day, give him a call, if he has a landline try that, or even leave him an email.
First the crazy story in short.
I was at my Girlfriend's apartment around 4am when suddenly she jumped up, looked at me, and said that sounds like his car. Then came loud knockings at the door of her apartment, and by the knocks alone I felt threatened so I ran to grab my rifle. After I got it I ran into my girlfriend's room I placed a magazine into my gun. Right after he started slamming the other two doors into her apartment, and then came by her bedroom window yelling at my girlfriend to wake up. He start banging on the glass aswell, and after he didn't hear an answer he started to get very mad. He next started yelling things such as get out here punk. Everything he said was pretty stupid, but except for the last words which were you're dead! And then he headed back to the front door, and started kicking it at an attempt to break an entry point. After I herd a crack from part of the door's wooden frame splitting I pulled the action back on my gun, and stood ready to fire aiming at her bedroom door. Fortunately he gave up trying to break in, and then kicked in her living room window. After that he got into his car, and drove away. Her neighbors responded with a call to the police for us, and now this monday I have to appear in court for a preliminary hearing.
What will happen, and how should I be prepared to proceed in it?
A preliminary hearing is an evedencial hearing, it comes after a criminal complaint has been made by the prosecutor.
Just tell the truth, try to stay calm, I know it's a bit daunting but you're not the one at fault. They just want to know how serious everything was. The extent the criminal and civil cause of action will be heard. They need to find out what evidence will be admitted and what else must be done.
You will be fine. You did nothing wrong.
If you want to know more...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Preliminary_hearing
Good luck and let me know how it goes.
so when i was in 6th grade going into 7th i did something really stupid.
it resulted in me loosing all my friends.
EVERYONE and i mean EVERYONE found out about it...
i am now 16 and it still hounts me.
like people sitll bring it up
what i did was not murder or naything against the law. just really emabrresing. when anyone says it to me like "u the girl who..." i cry ont he spot.
what can i do? its been like 4 years already and no one forgets it!!! like i cant go anywehre without someone knowing about me.
im scraed to go for a guy bc they wont want me bc of that..
Everyone does embarrassing things every now and again, no matter how bad it is, it'll go away eventually. I know I've done a few things people STILL remember after YEARS but it's all in good fun after a while. Learn how to accept it with a smile and show then you're strong and they'll get bored of it eventually. Just because you do something stupid, it doesn't mean you're a bad person because of it. It'll be something to laugh about in the future. They just need to grow up. Don't let it get you down, and if your friends desert you for it, find people to accept you for the great person you are. and if you're too embarrassed to start socialising to anyone right now, you can always talk to me. I know what it's like when you feel left out and sometimes you do get scared to try and meet a guy, but you WILL meet someone one day that's right with you, you just have to throw yourself out there, you'll never know until you try. Maybe try to find someone that's out of the district so they don't know about it at first, that way you'll get your confidence back.