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Hi..my name is Skyla. I'm 18 and I luv 2 give and recieve advice and just luv 2 talk. So, if you ever have a question or need advice, i'd luv 2 hear from u. I'm not the brightest person in the world, but I'll try to fill u in on what I know... or if you ever wanna just talk, you know where to find me!! =)
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I REALLY like this guy at school,Ryan, but he doesn't like me the same way.He only wants to be friends.I really want to go out with him though. What should i do? There is also some other,way prettier girls,lookin at him and I want him. :-] Any advice? (link)
If Ryan doesn't have a girlfriend, try to hang around him more often. Get to know him a little better. Then maybe more of a connection will pop up and he'll see if he really likes you as well as you really like him. Don't worry about the other girls, you try to move in and get to know him better and go from there... hope it helps.. try not to give up too early keep your head up hehe =)


Ok so i like this guy named daniel hes really cute and and funny the problem is that he just got broken up with by my friend marygrace and he says he still likes her but might like this other girl. Im going to ask him who he going to dance with at our school dance and see if he says me Is that a bad idea? We are pretty good friends but im not sure if he likes me and is over marygrace. (link)
No, there's no problem with you asking him. This way if he says that he planned on taking you, then you have a good chance of him liking you. If your pretty good friends, then that'll be an even better reason for you to ask him, and a lot easier. Also, if your pretty good friends, then it'll be easier for you to hint around the bush on who he "currently" likes lol..


so i always used to have a strong personality, and i was really strong willed, but this past year i've lost myself. people walk all over me, my friends my family - even my boyfriend who is usually a pushover is always walking all over me. i tried finally talking to him and he acted like he was listening, then two minutes later he acted like nothing ever happened and went back to normal. i don't want to fight so i didn't say anything but it really bothers me that he didn't take me being upset seriously.

i feel like everybody is always laughing at me, and they walk all over me. i don't like to fight but nobody listens when i say something. im tired of being a joke what can i do without causing drama? (link)
In some sense I know how you feel because there's time where I still get treated like that. I get tired of it sometimes and my anger builds up, but it all depends on how you act among everything. There's always going to be people in life that try to bring you down. Most of the time it's because they're jealous of you and they're self-consience about themselves. But whatever you do, don't let people walk all over you. If you standing up for yourself causes drama, who cares... Besides, there's drama every day like all the time, so I don't think it would matter. If people try to walk all over you and push you around, and if you just keep a smile on your face and not let it get to you, people will eventually quit because they know it doens't get to you anymore and make sure they know that by keeping that smile. I know it may sound hard, but trust me, it helps out a lot because I tend to do that sometimes. Hope I helped... ~ Skyla ~


there's this guy who always play jokes with me and "flirts" with me and everybody tells me tht he likes me but every time i talk about his crush, he will get shy and happy (he's not a player)he always plays tricks on me we normaly looks very close like i pat his head and he turned shy and say "stop patting my head and i'm not cute!" in a not-angry-way-but-appricates-it kind of way and he totally ingores me when his buds are around and also there's another guy who is a "geek" confess 2 me which i don't even like him! (link)
lol.. this is so funny.. i so never even knew i had a question in my inbox 'till now. i'm so so so sorry for not answering this question you posted it to me. and of course i know there's no point now in giving my advice lol.. once again.. sorry about that. i hope everything worked out the way you wanted it to!!!!!!!!!!!! ~ Skyla ~


I have this school dance coming up next month. My best friends ex-boyfriend likes me and I like him. I told my best friend that I couldn't do that to her by dating him. She told me I don't care about him anymore. I started to say okay when I had just remembered that a little while ago in fifth period everyone was talking about how weird it was that she had asked him if they could get back together.I thought how long ago that was and then said okay. My first question is should I believe her when she says she doesn't like him anymore? Then at lunch he asked who I was going to the dance with I said no one and asked why he asked he said just was wondering.Second question if he is afraid to ask me to the dance,what should I say in order to dawn to the question want to go to the dance with me so he might just ask me. (link)
well.. first i'd talk to your friend more about it, and if you can tell she doesn't care or bother her, then I wouldn't worry about it, but that is if your friend "really" doesn't care. if she doesn't, then i would just be like "so, who do you plan on going to the dance with" that way your kinda hinting him to ask you, but in a way your kinda not, it just depends on how he takes it.. if he says no one yet, then I'm sure he wants to ask you.. or you could be like, yeah, i'd like to go but I don't have anyone to go with..he'll probably get around to asking you, or he should anyways.. hope everything works out the way you want it to!!


hey everybody
i need to aks you all a question id appreciate it if you answered pretty quick

i have three friends at skool well those are my only friends ONLY in my class they are both sisters thyre twins.. anyhow we all 3 are always hangiing out ritee... theres this other girl shes also our friend and she hangs out with us to but u see she barely comes to skool so you kno they accualy hang around me most of the time and i honestly dont mind i love hanging with themm.. but theres just one problem..
i have other people in other classes i wanna hang out with in the break aswell like sometimes
i mean i cant take them with me cause u kno
im sure thyre not gonna like eachtoher
and im not gona leave them cause thyre both sisters and they get enough of eachtother at home
and all my other friends want me to hang out with them and stuff
please help ASAP!
thanks
Peace (link)
well, since you like hanging out with both "groups" then just try to introduce the "sisters" to your other friends and you never know they may get along.. just kinda leave class with them and then just randomly run into the others and you never know, they may all get along when they see that you wanna hang out with both. well i know it's not much, but it's worth a try lol hope i helped =) * Skyla *




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