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ok recently i posted a message about "tyler" rite....

well today i had a dream about him... i went up and asked him if he liked "rachel" he said no...... i like u... so i stood there like an idiot and just said o.... ummm.... so im not sure if i like him or not!! !! so heres the 411....

~hes in my language arts class and math class
~we sit across from each other in class
~he says bless u and smiles at me everytime i sneeze but only to me and he never says it to ne1 else
~if i drop my pen like behind me or sumthin he will GET UP and get it even if some1 else cud!
~the other day i was like "omg my poem sux soo bad" he said "thats really good" so i was just like "ok....."

do i like him or what or does he like me im just so confused!! bc i mean i want him to like me but im not sure i want a relationship!

im SOO SORRY its long but i really need some help!!! plz!!!

*i RATE high!

~boy crazy~

yeah i think u do like him, but ur playing hard to get and thats good! he seems interested in you, if u want a relationship u need to flirt alot n ask him if he wants to hang out this weekend!

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ok these TWO guys like me..... well im not sure about one of them but im definite on the other .... the first guy's name is lets say mike well he likes me... but hes kinda a loser.... plus hes a big jerk.... ya this is the guy who likes me and i no that he does. the second kid lets call him tyler.... im not sure if he likes me but all of my friends say that he flirts with me... but i dont even try to flirt with him!!! so the real question is does he like me??

o ya by the way i sorta have a crush on him but i dont wanna tell my friends bc last yere he wassa humongous loser and now hes all hot and sexy lol!!

plz dont delete this i really need advice!!

~*l0sT aNd CoNfUsEd*~

u NEED to flirt back!! ask him if he wants to hang out this weekend, n if he says yeah then hes prolly interested.. if he already flirts with u now then he mite already like u but find out for urself! ask him who he likes n give him some hints that u like him

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ok on monday I was dumped and I'm really unnhappy about it but now my ex keeps slagging me off to all my friends one of my friends told me what he'd said when I got to school he was being really nasty to me he kept calling me a ho slag slut and a bitch and said he regrets going out with me and that he never even liked me but when we were going out he text me saying I love you so did he have feelings for me but now he's being really nasty to me and now he's going out with his ex ex and I'm really stressed now what can I do please help me!

aw im sorry! its obvious that u deserve better. go to your friends, they always know what to do when im in a situation like this! and dont worry bc ull find a guy who isnt an ass like your ex

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im a columnist... and it is way easier to give advice to other ppl then to urself..so can u guys help me out wit this one!! i have been friends with this guy for 3 years.. and the entire three years i have been in love with him... but now im confused b/c i think he is starting to like me again.. but the thing is is im moving on the day after turkey day... and im really gonna miss him.. more then he knows.. i just wish could figure out a way to tell him i love him before i leave.. but wait there is more... he talks to me and tries to get advice on this gurl and i get all shy and stuff cuz i dont wanna help him get a date w/ anuther girl... today he thought it was gonna be the last time he was gonna see me for a while so he hugged me and it was a really long hug.. like the one u give ur b/f when he is leaving for a week.. i started crying and he just gave me a kiss on the cheek and i went home.. now do u think he likes me...

p.s he told my friend last summer..sometimes he does and sometimes he dont... any help on what that might mean...

if i was him then i would have a hint that u either really like me or that ur gunna miss a really good friend. so it could be either one of those.. b4 u leave i think u should tell him how u felt about him, and if u ever do move back then maybe something could happen between you two. even if u dont move back, still let him know, cuz im sure he would be happy to know how u felt

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alrighty..well I am 14 and a female & I have this really good guy friend but a few months ago I started feeling differently about him..I told one of my friends and of course she had a big mouth and everyone knew..including him*. So he started being a jerk around me and just ignored me so I figured two could play that game & I just got really pissed at him. I was really hurt that he would ever treat me like that. So then, about 2 weeks later we were all hanging out together like usual but it felt really awkward between me and him. So he pulled me aside and we talked everything out & the only reason why he wasnt talking to me was bcuz the person I told that I liked him went back and told him that I absolutely hated him and never wanted to talk to him again..so yea..we hugged and made up all was well..and I also found out that he liked me too...and from what I know..he still does and so do I..but a few weeks ago he told everyone he was gonna ask me out that night but he never showed..i didn't want to start anything again so I just dropped it, but my friend didnt she told him that he didnt know how to treat girls and he wasnt boyfriend material. This bothered him..I would know bcuz I'm the one he came to and he also wanted to make sure he wasnt being a jerk to me...I know he cares about me and I want to be more than friends but hes too scared to make the move..and my theory is that guys should be the one to make the 1st move..what should i do? this has been going on for too long now.

sumtimes guys are too nervous to make the first move, even tho they need to.. in this case it doesnt seem like hes gunna, so you need to! good luck!

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ok im kind of a shy person and recently i started making friends at another high school so im mainly with them. they are all so pretty...a lot of guys like them and they're so nice.i just want to fit in with them because when when im with them,i feel like the outsider. i want to b able to open up more...basically what i want to know is how to open up more!? plz plz help i really need it.

dont be afraid to step in and say how u feel.. if there talking about a certian thing then join in and let them know what u think about it. dont be a wall flower and not participate in w/e they do in the weekends... u could try to stand out by doing something that they think u would nvr do. good luck!

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