Just ask her questions, like how was her day, what's her favorite color, those kinds of things. They're random, but one question can lead to a whole discussion! Maybe tell her how your day went? I know when I'm with my boyfriend, I love it when he tells me how his day went and it usually sparks a conversation about something. Cuddling and talking is part of a healthy relationship. You guys can just have silly conversations about friends, family, past experiences, or if you guys are into it, maybe try a deep conversation. Make sure there's conversation on both your parts too. I get shy with my boyfriend all the time, but when he asks me a question, I end up coming out of my shell. I hope this helped! Best of luck!

Honestly, you should not change the fact that you an honest person. That's a very good quality and when people realize that, they will also realize that you are good friend. No, it's not good to lie to your parents, but some people do it anyway. It's all right to be shy, I'm totally shy too! When I talk with someone, I usually say something kind of random that makes people go 'whaaaat?' Then I explain it a little more and before ya know it, there's a conversation going about something random! Haha, sometimes even simple things, like "So, what's up?" Are good conversation starters. Just carry on from there, like if they say:
"Eh, I'm feeling a bit upset. I lost my iPod." Just respond naturally. Be yourself! I know it's a little hard and you probably blush, maybe fidget a little because I do that too, but then after a while, it goes away and you feel more casual. Don't tense up or anything. Relax. The other person is probably trying to communicate with you and if you're relaxed, they'll be relaxed. And for the record, geeks are pretty awesome ;)

Ahh, I had the same thing going on with the guy I'm currently dating. Sometimes you just gotta do it first, even if you don't wanna. If he sees you do something, he'll probably think it's all right and start slowly crawling out of his shell. When I started dating my boyfriend, I was waiting for him to make the first move, so I gave up and just grabbed his hand and said "We're going to hold hands, is that okay?" And of course he was turning all red and just nodding, but now he's the one who does things, like kissing and hugging me. Maybe try it out or drop hints by brushing your arm again him or licking your lips or say your cold... It sounds kinda corny, but hey! It actually works :)
Good luck to you guys!

Hi hi hi! Call me Tsukuyomi. I'm an avid writer and reader with a peculiar taste in books and music. I love gay and supernatural books, such as the Archangel Academy series (which has both of those lovely genres!). I enjoy K-Pop and J-Pop music as well as the old time rock and roll. I'm really into researching mythology and religion. I'm open-minded and optimistic with a bit of sarcasm on the side, but I don't bite!

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