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I got asked out in school on Wendsday and he's my first boyfriend and I don't know what to do! I'm really shy. I really like him but since I don't know what to do I'm scared he'll break up with me.. HELP!

I was in a pretty similar situation last year when I had my first boyfriend. When we went to a ball, I was so nervous like, really nervous. I kept looking away and I couldn't even maintain eye contact. He thought I didn't like him anymore but I talked to him and explained how I was so nervous because I had no idea how I should act as a girlfriend. The talk we had helped us understand each other and we are still together. :)

Break the ice by letting him know that you're happy to have your first boyfriend but at the same time you're so nervous because you've never been in a relationship. He'll probably appreciate it if you tell him because he won't get confused. Be honest. After all, he is your boyfriend. Don't be afraid to show him who you really are. :)

Just enjoy every minute. Young love is so cute but it can be complicated too just like any other relationship. Nevertheless, don't let your worries ruin your moments! :)

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