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OK I am 13/f and I have this relationship I'm in that is secret.
OK my friend started liking me and flirting with me. I liked him too just was afraid that he might not like me back. So he asked me do me and him want to be together. At first I told him we should be secretive. The reason why I said so because were both in the same classroom and I like kinda been with three of them in there and one was before some of our classes were mixed together. So I didn't want people to call me names and stuff like that. Our relationship is good in secretive but it's hard that we see each other everyday and its hard not to hug or try to be romantic. So my biggest question should i keep it in secret or tell a few people to get the idea. Or just start showing people that we are a thing and soon they will figure out.
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What you talk about in your question is how other people feel about you and your boyfriend. Don't worry about what other people think. In a way, you're asking whether you should make a decision based on what other people think.
You two should just do your own thing and not worry about what other people think. There's no need to tell certain people and there's no need to keep it secret unless the two of you want to keep it secret.
This is ultimately a decision between you and your boyfriend. Don't worry about other people and don't worry about whether they should know or not.
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If you are friends with someone that you really like and its in the middle of summer but you cant wait to ask her out but you want to ask her out in person so you seem more confident then what do you do? Do you ask her, or do you wait to ask her out in person? (link)
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You should definitely ask her out in person. Although it's easier to ask her in a text or e-mail, the experience of asking someone out in person is second to none.
Just remember, she has the option of saying "yes" or saying "no". If she says no, it's by no means a reflection of who you are as a person. It just means she's not interested in that kind of relationship; you can still be great friends!
My advice is to ask her out in person but don't get your hopes up too much because you will end up getting hurt more in the end.
Best of luck!
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so like most of my friends have guys that like them but i feel like im not going to ever have anybody. I feel lonely most of the time because no guys seem to like me. I just dont understand. I am 17 and a senior so i will be graduating this school year. I know lots of people just say wait for college but i get lonely and i see my friends happy. I dont understand why either. Im not ugly, im usually outgoing and funny. I have a pretty nice personality. Im nice but not to nice. I am also very friendly. i flirt with guys they flirt with me but they are just flirting. guys that i like dont seem to like me either or they just dont act like they dont. i just wished that i didnt feel so lonely all the time. I know i have great friends and shouldnt worry about the guys, but my friends have guys that want them to do things with and i always feel like the third wheel. im just wondering why guys dont really like me or see me as dating material (thanks for the help (link)
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loneliness is definitely one of the worst feelings in the world! i hear you on that one.
take a quick moment and think about all the things you like about yourself. what hobbies, activities, hangouts, or interests do you have? you'd probably want someone who can at least relate to them or like them also, right? what if the right guy came along but you didn't think your friends would think he's cool enough, attractive enough, or worth it? would you pass up a great guy because you're afraid of what other people will think?
if you're flirting with a guy and he's flirting back, maybe you should ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. this is a great first step. otherwise, you'll never know whether they like you or not! just don't get depressed because other people are dating and you aren't. you work on your own schedule and do your own thing until the time is right; don't force it.
best of luck!
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