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I'll make it as brief & clear as possible.
I am 19 and female. I live at home with my parents. My boyfriend and I are getting an apartment in a month or two (thank the Lord). But in my house, my parents always put me down and yell at me. I have clinical depression, and high anxiety. I am on lots of medication. I can't seek help b/c I am broke (just started working) and my parents think it's all in my head. My mom is an alcoholic so when she is drunk she likes to hit me, and yell at me. My dad doesn't drink [he's diabetic], but he yells at me and threatens me. Sometimes I have to go all day stuck in my room without food because my parents won't let me out.
I just started work at this bank. Well my manager has been very criticizing of me. I am a very emotional person. So when she does, I want to cry. And she says I need to be super happy with customers, like perky kinda happy. She got one complaint from a customer saying I didn't make her comfortable or something. I try my best to be happy. Yeah I smile.. but I can't be super happy. It's just really hard. At home I get all this crap, and I go to work. I feel depressed, and it's hard to be perky happy. I couldn't even pretend. I just feel so desolate.. I am trying to make everyone happy, but I don't know how.
Could someone please tell me what I should do.. how can I make everyone happy? (link)
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Okay girl obviously you're going through alot, and i totally understand. I'm very emotional as well and it's hard for me to not cry at work. See what i did is i spoke to my managers about my situations at home and told them that i need all the help i can get. you have the right to do that to. My advice to you is to not worry about your parents anymore...because soon they wont be there to yell at you when you move out with your boyfriend. You're not gonna always make everyone happy, cause nobody is perfect at all whatsoever. I believe in you girl and know you can get through this. When you go home at night and go into your room i want you to grab your pillow and scream and yell into it. i gaurentee you'll feel alot better. Anyways, if you ever need anymore help i'm here for you girl. Hope i helped.
your friend, lulabell aka lulu
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My cash drawer at work keeps being count short or over..and I'm on my final written...I don't know what to do. I count the money customers give me 4 times..twice when being handed to me and twice before putting it in..how can I stop my drawer from being short or over?? (link)
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okay here's one thing....take a deep breath before each order and after. i've been short in my till before and all you can do is count the money they give you and put that in your till and count the money that you owe them. i don't know if you're screen tells you the amount you owe, but if it doesn't bring a calculator to work.if it continues...talk to your managers. they should understand. if they don't, thats not right. hope i helped.
your friend, lulabell aka lulu
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