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don't worry, i won't bite. you can come to me with anything. i live in alaska and i graduate c/o 2008. even though i'm really young, that doesn't mean i don't know what i'm talking about. i've been through a lot of stuff and i've been there for all my friends and family during their time of need. i love helping people. i actually plan to major in psychology when i go to college. so yes, don't worry. i'll be here to help.
E-mail: forseri0us@hotmail.com
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Location: Alaska
Occupation: student @ DHS
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Member Since: August 22, 2005
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So we just started school back up this Tuesday and I like it just fine. But the only problem is that I don't have any friends. And I sit alone at lunch, and all the kids look at me like "OMG what a loser.." I actually heard some kid behind me say to one of his friends about "oh look at the girl sitting by herself" and he laughed like it was the funniest thing in the world.

I am a very shy person, and I have actually tried to go up to a few people and ask if I can sit with them. They say yes but don't talk to me and make me feel really uncomfortable around them so it's pointless to sit with them. I have contemplated just going to sit in the bathroom or library at lunch.

But the only problem with that is I have to eat during lunch, because if I don't, when I come home I'll eat alot. My mom and I get food stamps and every month they lower the price so I can't eat all the food. What do I do? Do I just suck it up and sit by myself everyday? Or do I just not eat so much? Please help! I will rate! (link)
gosh. kids are mean.
that's why i'm not one to judge before hand. you don't know what baggage people pack around with them.

-- i guess i don't really understand the whole thing about either you talk to people and not eat, or you eat and not talk to anyone. why can't you talk AND eat ? people are dumb if they don't eat lunch. and it makes it even better because you all can share food and stuff. you're NOT cool if you don't eat. just think of it that way.

try to involve yourself in the conversation, or start one of your own. talk about the cool show you saw on tv last night, or about how hard your math test was. or gossip. as bad as that sounds, it always drags people in.

just be yourself.

okay bye, have a nice day :)


i want to break up with my girlfriend but let her down easy, like break it to her softly and u know not an insensitive im dumping u manner just like a lets be friends 13/m (link)
warning :
do not use the,
"LET'S JUST BE FRiENDS" line.

-- you should also try to break up with her on the phone, or even better. in person. because over the internet or a text message just shows that you have no balls and then she'll tell her friends who will tell her friends who will tell their friends . . . and so on. and then you'll be known as the aHOLE ex boyfriend who dumped his girlfriend with a text or online.

every girl is going to get hurt when they get dumped. unless of course, she feels the same way. so don't expect her to walk away smiling and singing. just tell her that you don't really think she's the type for you, but that doesn't make her a bad person. and from there try to stay friends with her. be friendly and don't two-face her. just don't say, let's be friends. because most couples that use that line when they break up -- don't stay friends.

make sure you're making the right choice.





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