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Hey now i just moved back to connecticut form florida and i am really nervous to get back to school i mean last year alot of kids called me names like gay or fag and belive me i am not gay i have had three girlfreinds. buut how could i get people to stop saying this kind of stuff cause its not helping my self confidence and it just makes me more nervous and paranoid about everyone around me

ok so you can't really make them stop, because kids are kids. they are really immature and you just have to be above them. ive had my share of getting called names, and i know how you feel because they sometimes go to far. just dont become the same as them. if someone says it to your face in the hallway or something, stop and look at him or her and just say, wow your pathetic, because they must be if they have such low self esteem that they have to make up things that arent true. even if it was true they still shouldnt say things like that. just dont pay attention to it, and if you dont let it bother you, it will eventually stop because they will get bored because you have no reaction to it. hope that helps a little :]

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okay so i am going to be a freshman in september. i am really scared, whats freshman year like? do the sophmores, juniors and seniors torture you?! what happenes on freshman friday?

another question, how do i make new friends? that might sound like a stupid question but, im shy. how do i become friends with some of the other freshman, sophmores, juniors or seniors? i want high school to be the best years of my life!

thanks for the helpp!!! =]

woww. you sound exactly like i did before my freshman year! trust me dont sweat it. i know im only a sophomore, but im still experienced. no one tortures you, you just hear: wow stupid freshman or hey freshie. but mostly in a joking matter. you make new friends that are in your classes, thats what i did. i also met a lot of people from my already close friends, just be yourself and dont try and be all cool and act older. trust me. your high school years will be the best years of your life. just watch out on the last day of school, because everyone gets shaving creamed and tortured on the last day, not only freshman. hope i helped :]

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