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OKay I want to do a survey. and i want to ask what is everyone Top number one thing and important thing to think about 24/7?
Enjoying every single moment of life -- either good or bad -- because any minute, everything we have ever known can be taken away from us. That is the most important thing that every single human being should recognize: carpe diem.
which guys like better short hair or long hair? plus bangs? I just cerous.
guys like long hair, always. i don't think it really matters if you you have bangs or not, as long as you look good :)
how do you think a girl should look?
& other things like do you like straight blonde hair? brown curly and scrunchedd?
prefer white girls or maybe hispanic girls?
jusstt wo0nderinqqq and open to ALL answerss :]
i think girls with brown / light brown hair, straight with layers and side bangs with moderately tan skin are so pretty! doesn't matter what color eyes. i have straight dark hair and dark eyes so idk why i like brunettes with straight hair. scrunched hair is really unattractive imo -- i like natural, curly hair better. scrunched hair makes hair look "crispy" almost. white / asian girls are really pretty.
I guess this is in a way a relationship between me and my teachers?
Ahh, I'm not sure.
Anyway,
What are some things I could do to practice speaking louder in class? When I answer a question, I answer it quietly or if I have to read out loud I read it quietly and fast.
So what are some ways I could practice getting used to talking louder?
Thanks!
hey
participate in class, that's ALL there is you can do. whenever a teacher wants you to answer a question, just project your voice so that everyone around you can hear you. don't talk to the teacher; talk to the class. and take hold of every single opportunity you can to participate in class!
take a public speaking course or join your school forensics team (both of those REALLY REALLY help with self confidence and enunciation!)
be passionate and enthusiastic about which you are reading, even if it's boring as hell!
it is the speaker who grasps the attention of the audience, not the material itself.
what are the best good saying to say to people when you let them know not to worry or when they having a bad or maybe sad day.
when my friend has a bad day, i first ask them if they would feel better if they talked about it because sometimes people don't want to. if they begin describing the situation, i tell them that it's not their fault and that i'm always there if they ever need someone to talk to. i let them know that things will always work themselves out, or offer a different insight on their situation. don't just say "aww it's okay" like actually get to the bottom of it and ask, "so why are you so sad about this? what would you have done differently? how will you fix it now (what steps will you take now in order to resolve the problem)?"
my "best" friend, who has been my "best" friend since 5th grade, which is about three years, moved somewhere else last year. she and this girl named sarah weren't close, until this year, when they started talking. they are now really good friends, and they both seem to have so much more fun together than she would with me. like, sarah is into guys, and so is my "best" friend, and they talk about it a lot. sarah has a boy friend so i guess it makes their friendship more interesting. also, ive told her so many times, she either denies everything or just says sorry. but nothing works. im really jealous, like seriously jealous. its making me hate sarah for no reason at all. i dont know what to do. PLEASE dont tell me to talk to her, well, if you do tell me to, please write out exactly what to say, because ive tried so many ways. i dont wanna tell her im jealous, unless i really have to. and i always send my "best" friend emails telling her how i feel, but she seems to not care. i wanna tell her, "okay, this is why i dont talk to you much. please dont get mad at me. nina (nina is my "best" friend), im jealous of your relationship with sarah. and i think that its been causing me to treat her differently. ive tried so many times to have a friendhsip liek you guys, but i dunno, i feel like our friendship is fake. like we have nothing left of us anymore, or hardly anything. you may not feel that way, but i do. i know that ive sent you so many emails telling you how i feel, but ive been being honest about everything. i cant let this let me down, because it is, and it has been. and im sorry, i am, im just jealous, and i dont know what to do about it."
SHOULD i tell her that? tell me what to say please or tell me what to or what not to say from that thing i said up there.
babeee, i know how you feel.
but honestly, there are SO MANY girls out there who could be your REAL best friend. why would you want to fake it? if she used to be your best friend, it doesn't mean she still is. i know it hurts a LOT, trust me, femalefriends can KILL if they wanted to, but if nina isn't going to be a true friend to you and respond to your emails, let alone show any concern at ALL, why should you put so much effort into the friendship? friendships, along with all relationships, are a two way street. one person gives 50% and the other person gives 50%. it's balanced. a best friend is supposed to be there for you when you need her, to help you when you want to talk, to laugh with you when you're happy, and be able to guide you to make good decisions so you don't hurt yourself. ask yourself, "has nina really done anything for this relationship, or am i always the one to initiate it?" people make mistakes. but if she's not willing to admit hers and / or apologize, you need to find someone else.
you've done all you can. you've tried emailing her. no matter what you say, she won't look back... she's best friends with sarah now. don't care about her anymore if she doesn't care about you. don't ignore her or be mean to her or talk badly of her, but don't look to her as your best friend anymore.
best friends are just lies... you think you've found a best friend only to realize you haven't. i know i've gone through at least two or three "best" friends, (all of which i'm still friends with!) but it's not a big deal not to have ONE SINGLE female to always be there for you. sometimes, that's just not possible. yes, it's nice, but i've learned the hard way that no one can be trusted except yourself. so the faster you realize it, the less you'll be hurt in the future. share good times with friends, but don't work up a sweat just cause you don't have ONE SINGLE best friend, cause i know i don't. i have a few really really good friends. and it works out well for me because
a.) no one person knows everything, so no one could backstab me even if they wanted
b.) each person has their own strength. one friend makes me laugh, one friend comforts me, one friend can keep a secret, etc.
c.) i won't lose everything i have by losing one of my friends. i depend a lot on myself, this website (hahahah) and my diary.
i hope i helped & feel free to inbox me, sweetie.
does anybody know any tips on how to memorising
YES.
1.) acronyms are your friend. anything you can think of. lists, definitions, just memorize three or four letters at one time. your brain retains more if you do things in 2-4 sets, like phone numbers.
2.) don't necessarily understand it. be able to just recite it like a robot.
i'm really good at memorizing practically anything. i read it, look away, and recite it, and REPETITION. if you need more tips feel FREE to inbox me! it's one of my strengths, if not, then my best strength