Hi! I live in Chino Hills, California and I came to this site to see if I can help anyone who needs it. I am 15 years old and am known in my group of friends as the "voice of reason" :)
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I always tell people that I give advice to that I'm just a person who makes mistakes so before they consider my advice they should make sure they agree with it. They should also make sure it's the best thing for them to do.
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so the boy i have a huge crush on might be coming to my house at christmas with his family. my parents an his are friends and my mom was talking about inviting then round one night after christmas, and was wondering what could i say, some good convo starters, so that we can get to know each other abit better, but the only problen is he has a girlfriend but weather they will still be together at christmas i dont know, any help please ? (link)
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First of all, he has a g/f so you shouldnt really be planning ways to talk him up. Imagine if he were your b/f and some girl started flirting with him, how would you feel? It's not only your feelings you are deeling with; it's yours, his and hers. There's a 60/40 chance he will still be dating her by Christmas. That being said, it's still okay to establish a friendship with him--this might be unpleasurable at times, but at least you will be in his life. Some good conversation starters would some about school, music, occupation, animals, friends, favorite restaurantes, what they got for Christmas, etc. Just make sure you aren't too flirty when you talk to him (in the case that he is still in a relationship) or you may drive him away from you.
Hope I helped!
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Well I like this guy... Lets call him Tyler. I've been talking to him about 2 months ago every day and then it kinda stopped.. and well, he isn't really a good conversation starter. He usually responds like "lol, yeah. haha. " You know what I mean? Then a month ago we were talking about some "dirty things" but it was all a joke. Then it stopped. And when we did talk, we would talk for soo long. Around 2-4 hours? Haha. Then yesterday we had this deep conversation and it was kind of random topics but he was saying how he doesn't want to have a relationship until 2 years later. And some stuff about his life and things like that. But about the relationship thing... He said he doesn't like them because people always spread it everywhere and stuff and it gets pretty annoying. Well, I did agree with him. But see, the problem is that I don't want to have like those "going out dates" kind of relationship. I just like this, "yeah we like eachother" and just talk and stuff. But recently, there was this rumour that spread a bit that I liked him (I dont know whether or not they spread it as a joke or did they really know) and then we were discussing about who might have started it and stuff. But he never actually asked me if the rumour was true or not. And since school ended, it may be a bit easier to talk to him through msn? The problem is that those little "msn talks" are kind of annoying since you can't really talk in real life. Well that isn't a big problem for now... But I just don't know if I should tell him that I like him. And if I do tell him, how should I actually tell him? Im just pretty confuesed. :P Thanks ! (: (link)
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i think you should tell him bt not quit yet. Wait to see if there are any signs he likes you back. Also, when you do tell hm make sure you arent too pushy because he already told you he doesnt want to be in a relationship yet
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i don't think im good enough to take the course that i want in college and everything is stressing me out what can i do to motivate myself?
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Hun, don't be negative on yourself. Go for it! If it's too hard, try again next year! I know it is not convenient, but if it is what you want, chase it.
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Hi!!(Long.. I'm sorry. please read!!!)
Okay this guy ...his names Matt...makes me so miserable!! I'll start off by saying I use to like this guy...like..love this guy, well I'm just 13 1/2 so its not REAL love. Well, he absolutely hurt me.. so bad, he told me he didn't like me...the worst way possible...he let his sister bash me on his Myspace...and he didn't even delete the comment for me.Well...that was a long while ago and...we got into a fight like last month and he STILL hasn't became my friend again and I don't know why. He was mad at me because a day last month, my friend and I were talking...and we called matt and we were talking and joking around...and he said to me " I don't like you and I never will".( I have no idea if he was joking..my friend said so..because he ws acting silly) He said that out of no where! So...we called him back we got his message machine my friend was acting real mean...I told her to stop...and I didn't even talk..she told him I have a boy friend so he needs to shut up. So..he told me off the next day and now he won't forgive me. I told him that it wasn't my fault but he didn't care. I told him sorry just recently. My boy friend had my phone...and I told him that.He said " Ok. No...don't lie like that...that was you who was calling me names." I told him " It was my BOYFRIEND". I said .He said "Ya..right..I'm not going to be your friend after that..and WHO'S your BOYFRIEND"? I told him his name and stuff and he says " I don't have a problem with you , but were still not friends". I told him that he was making me upset and he told me if I new his personality I wouldn't be upset!! I know his personality. So...after all this..I'm over him, but now my friends think that he likes me now...and he just doesn't want to date me because I'm in 7th grade and he's in 8th and he popular. Well..I think he does to..because when I was at the pick up area (Yesterday)waiting to get picked up.. Matt walks up to me..and stands in front of me.. than...he stands beside me..he turns to me ..I look at him...than he leaves to go to his car!!Now WHAT the heck is that about? Was ...he trying to talk to me? Well, today..I was outside waiting again..he walks out..and stand a few inches away...lookin around and stuff. Than...I saw my moms car and walk off..than I see him look over his shoulder .. whatching me , I got to my car. Well...I put my books in my car look at him and he's RIGHT there by my car talking on his phone...he followed me. Whats going on?? I've been feeling like he's coping me..or following me..because I was at wal mart..and as I was walking out, and I see matts car..I look in and I yep It was i think,cuz when I looked back..I thought I saw matt's face. That same day I got a hair cut..and on Monday he HAD ONE TO! Weird huh? My hair cut is awesome..so is his..and I think he likes it. What do you guys think??
My friend thinks that he doesn't want to be my friend because he wants to be more than that..and I said ...that doesn't make sense to me...does it to you? Do you think he likes me now?? How can I get him to forgive me?? I really want to be friend, he's a nice guy well,when he wants to be..lol
Thanks SO MUCH FOR READING!
I'll rate fair!!
Thanks! :) (link)
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Hun, sorry to say this, but you need to get over this guy. He has already given you heartbreak once, what makes you think he won't do it again? All I'm saying is take a break from this guy, maybe you will realize you are to good for him, because you are.
I think this guy told you he didn't like you because he knew you liked him. I know it sounds dumb, but, he's a guy. No offense to all you dudes out there, but you have to admit it, when a girl likes you, you do get a little nervous.
And Hun, you are way to young to be worring about relationships and guys! No mean to sound like your mom, but you are still a kid! You need to focus on fun, not that guys aren't fun and all, but you need make sure they don't conquer your life.
I think this guy is just playing with your head, beside, like you said, YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!! I know you just want him to be your friend now, but, sorry to say, your relationship with him is over. You haven't ruined it, he has. You deserve more then him.
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