welcome to my advice page...my name is alexa and i go to st.joe high school. my friend told me to start this since she says i give out pretty good advice....well, i like helping people, and i've been through some stuff so if you have a question, i'll probably be able to answer it.
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I went to a party thrown by my boyfriend's family and my boyfriend went to bed around 11:30 that night. Well, the rest of us were partying still at 2:30. His friend that I have known since we started dating was hanging out with me rather close. (just like we always do) Well, we ended up making out and had this touchy feely thing going on all night and the next day I told my boyfriend so he would not hear it from someone else. My boyfriend was not mad and just total accepted it. Well since then I am still thinking about what happened and I am looking for to seeing his friend again. But, I am wondering since alcohol was involved..was it just that or could it be more? Should we talk about it? I really love my boyfriend but I really like his friend. Help!! (link)
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its interesting how understanding your boyfriend was...being the suspicious person i am, it sounds as if maybe he has secrets to hide too? most guys will NOT be that understanding once they find out you made out with their best friend. he possibly might have done the same thing and is almost relieved you made out with his friend, to alleviate the guilt. another possiblilty is that since you said the excitement has long since gone from your relationship, he possibly doesn't care that much anymore. if you really love him, sit down and talk to him. tell him how suprised you are that he was so understanding and ask him why he's not mad at all. talking about this to him could bring you two back to that "just asked out" feeling again. good luck!
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