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I AM A 13 YEAR OLD GURL WHO IS ALWAYS LOOKING TO GIVE SOMEONE ADVICE. I LOVE HELPING PEOPLE OUT WITH THEIR EVERYDAY PROBLEMS. I AM AN AQUARIUS. MY B-DAY IS FEBRUARY 4. I LIVE IN NORTH HIGHLANDS, CALIFORNIA AND I LIVE WITH MY MOM. I HAVE 3 SISTAS AND 1 BROTHER. I HAVE ONE OLDER SISTA AND SHE IS ON THIS WEBSITE AND HAS AN ADVICE COLUMN TOO! SO NO QUESTION IS TOO STUPID FOR ME TO ANSWER SO DROP ME A LINE AND ILL BE HAPPY TO HELP YOU OUT.XOXOXOXO
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ok, im 15/f and i think i like one of my really good guy friends. he flirts with me all the time in math or atleast it seems like he does..one of my really good friends cant believe i like him..what do i do cause i dont know if i can talk myself out of liking him like i do a lot. please help!! (link)
ok well what i think you should do is u should just talk to him over the phone and see if u still like him like that so good luck peace out


my bestfriend moved to va to go to college and i wanna move up there with her soo bad and go to college there but im still n school and im tryna tal my parents into letting me get my ged n go to college so i can live with her i need some advice to make my parents let me (link)
TELL YOUR PARENTS NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY YOU ARE MOVING CUZ IM 18


ok i just broke up with my boyfrend like last monday... well theres a dance comin up next friday... n ithink he still likes me but he likes another girl named caroline and he already asked her oout n everything like 2 days afta he dumped me!! but she said no.. ne ways.. hes obveously gonna dance with caroline but if he asks to dance with her but if he asks to dance with me.. should i? wat if he trys to kiss me or something? i need help! i still hav a small microscopic crush on him (the reason he dumped me was because he didnt want to get sick of me n then when we really had to break up tht he neva would talk to me again) n the girl he likes is so much bossyer like she tells him wat to wear n how to style his hair... i neva did tht!!! wat do i do!?!? (link)
WELL THIS GURL SOUNDS MEAN AND IM SURE HE IS JUST KEEPING HIS OPTIONS OPEN. LIKE OKAY PUT IT THIS WAY THIS GUY THAT REALLY LIKES ME KISSED ME BUT THEN MY DAD FOUND US KISSING AND WE GOT INTO TROUBLE. WELL I KNOW HE LIKES ME BECAUSE HE ADMITED TO IT BUT WE ARE KINDA DATING OTHER PEOPLE SO THAT WHEN WE GET OLDER WE CAN GET TOGETHER SO WE ARE TRYING NOT TO GET SICK OF EACHOTHER AND JUST BEING FRIENDS FOR NOW SO THATS THE SAME WAY AS YOUR PROBLEM. JUST GO OUT WITH ANOTHER GUY FOR NOW AND SEE HOW HE REACTS. THEN IF HE ASKS YOU TO DANCE WITH HIM THEN YOU NEED TO SAY YES AND IF HE TRYS TO KISS YOU JUST DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT TO YOU.DROP ME A LINE AND TELL ME HOW IT GOES!!!!


OK... im a freshman and theres this boy that ive been liking for a week or so.. we always flirt when we see each other i.e he takes my pop, we play fight etc.

and i really like him alot and i wanna go out with him but im not sure if he really likes me enough to go further... So what should i do? How do i find out? Should i jus ask him out myself?
:( im jus really confused rite now.

Please help! Ill give a 5 jus for effort! thanks a bunch!

*confused chic* (link)
WELL IT SEEMS THAT YOU ARE REALLY IN A TIGHT SPOT. WELL MY ADVICE IS THAT YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM OR HAVE ONE OF HIS FRIENDS TALK TO HIM AND SEE IF HE REALLY LIKES YOU. IF HE DOESNT THEN THERE ARE ALWAYS OTHER PEOPLE. WHATS THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN? DROP ME A LINE AND TELL ME WHAT YOU ARE GONNA DO, MY E-MAIL IS ON MY ADVICE COLUMN!!!!!


ok, there is tis guy at school who really likes me. so he asked me to the school dance, i said yes and we went together. i really wanted him to ask me to slow dance but he didn't until the last song, when i was tired and didn't want to dance anymore. so i said no thx, not maybe next time. now he thinks i rejected him from being a couple, and he won't even talk to me anymore. what should i do to get him to talk to me again? (link)
YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH HIM SO THAT HE WILL KNOW THAT YOU KNOW THAT A GOOD RELATIONSHIP TAKES HOONESTY AND TRUST. ALSO JUST TELL HIM THE REASON YOU DIDNT WANT TO DANCE AT THE LAST SONG WAS BECAUSE YOU WERE REALLY TIRED AND YOU DIDNT FEEL LIKE IT.ALSO KEEP IN MIND THAT THE REASON THAT HE ASKED YOU ON THE LAST SONG WAS BECAUSE THAT HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE SPECIAL DANCE FOR COUPLES. SO REMEMBER THAT AND HAVE FUN!XOXO BYE!


There's this boy that I've known for a few years. We talk on email every single day, and we see each other at school.
It feels like we're just friends, but the other day my best friend pointed out that it seems like we are "more than just friends".
I don't believe that, he's just my friend. He's weird, funny, nice, creative, and lots of other things, but I don't know if I really "like like" him or not.
Can someone help me out in trying to figure out my real feelings? (link)
OKAY I THINK THAT THERE IS A POSSIBLE CHANCE THAT YOU LIKE HIM,BUT I THINK THAT YOU LOVE THE ATTENTION FROM A GUY. SOMETIMES THAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME BUT NOTHING SERIOUS.SO HAVE FUN AND JUST GO WITH THE FLOW.




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