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ok i get this report about how i do in school each week. and when i 1st started getting it my dad said that if i get ONE bad thing on it than i am grounded for the whole weekend...no phone. no computer. no friends. no tv. no music. and then something bad was on it and i really dont wanna b grounded this weekend so i told him i forgot it somewhere and that i cant find it so he told me that he wanted to see it on monday and i was free this weekend but he said that if i forget it on monday or if its bad than i get grounded for 2 weeks...and in the next two weeks ill be going to 6 flags and the kiss concert so i dont know what to do because i dont know if he would take those 2 things away from me because he payed for them both..what should i do? be free for this weekend and have a good time like a plannned?? or risk being grounded for 2 weeks..but then again he might forget..please answer! soooon! ill rate.

I would hurry up and 'find' that report...being grounded for 2 days is a whole lot better than being grounded for 2 weeks. Your dad won't forget about it. I guess it's your choice...if you give the report to him on Monday, he might want to know why you didn't tell him about the bad mark, or something. And even if he payed to the concert and theme park, it's possible he'll take them away in a split second..my parents probably would, but everyone's different. I guess it's probably best to sacrifice your weekend for an awesome 2 weeks.

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I think that this guy that rides my bus is attracted to me and he is really sweet. I've never had a boyfriend before so I don't know what to expect. Plus, he happens to be my friends brother aswell. He always stare at me and turns away when i look, and when he thinks I'm not looking he stares again. Anyways recently i have admitted that I really do like him. I told my friend that I liked her brother. How do i get to know him better as a friend first without sounding like an idiot? And once I am friends with him how can I get him to take that step forward with me? I'm just trying to figure out what I need to do to see if he's into me or not? Please help.

You should probably just find some things that you have in common with him. Or if you feel comfortable around him, you can talk about totally random things. And you should be able to feel comfortable around him, if you want to possibly date him in the future. But as for finding things you have in common - there are so many possibilities to learn more about him. What kinds of music does he like? Maybe it's the same ones you do. What movies or tv shows? Does he play any sports? Just talk to him like you would any other friend...and good luck!

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