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Okay so my state (TN) has decided to mandate that every student K-12 get 90 minutes of excersize a week. Well they are using our homeroom time at my school to do just that. I think it is incredibly stupid because its not the school's responsibility to tell us what to do as far as excersizing goes. It is so damn retarded I can hardly stand it. I HATE coming to school now. OMG as if it wasnt bad enough LETS THROW IN SOME EXCERSIZE!!! Plus my homeroom teacher is strict with the rules, so if we dont do these excersizes every morning, she will write us up. I dont feel like I can talk to her because she wont understand. And I cant sit there and object while everyone else is doing it because that will draw negative attention to me. I get enough attention as it is for being fat. And thats not the reason I dont want to do the excersizes. It's just that 15 minutes is a long time for someone who is as heavy as I am and its embarassing to have my fat jiggle around for the whole freaking class to watch and laugh at. I would much prefer to excersize in PRIVACY where I dont have to worry about what I look like. High school is bad enough as it is. I think this is pure torture and I really want to refuse to do it. But I dont want to bring negative attention to myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO???? and what is your opinion on our new state law??

14/m

well, i think you should not care what they think and come into class with the "If you don't like me, well then fuck you" attitude and just act like you are the only one in the class.


I mean they will still tease you for a while but after time goes by the exercise will turn your body into a chisled work of art.


I went from 20 pounds over weight to a six pack that would make a beer can green with envy.

hope i helped

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okay so iam a 16/f and i have alot of problems. and mostly its because of my bad attitude. like at home whenever i don't get what i want or if my parents tell me to do something i get mad. and i have anger problems as well. and i don't know what to do about that. and also at school im always getting made fun of. and whenever i make friends i always end up losing them i don't know why they just get turned off.. and even when i go out with my parents people from my school and they start screaming my name. and my parents always think that they do that because of my bad attitude or because i did something to them. and im so sick of it. and sometimes i wish i could just die. i fel like i don't belong here. what should i do?

14/m
well the first thing you should do is make me your friend because i will never leave you nomatter what you are like. get my email off my page and we'll talk.

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theres this guy name bill and he likes to start rumors like we mess around with each ( telling jokes and stuff ) and so he goes nate wants you ( nate is this one guy ) im like eww i dont care i dont like him. and so bill goes and tells nate rose likes you ( me =rose) and nate goes online and IMs me and is like I DONT LIKE YOU SMELLY ARAB YOUR VAG SMELLS FUNNY AND YOUR UGLY and he just keeps goinng on dissing me and i diss him back
but now he wont stop and its bothering me. i have him in third hour and like what do i do?
ignore him?
cuss at him?

i just dont know whats the best

i mean if someone were calling you names and all that would you honestly just sit there and ignore them?

i ignored him now when he sent this


in third hour it always smells like fish because you never close your legs take out the dead fucken corpes out of ur vajj


oh and the LAST thing i would ever do is tell a teacher or adult, so dont say it

im sorry but this is online abuse and you neeeeeed to tell an adult. and because he called you a racist name you can get a restraining order put on him. but you really need to tell an adult.

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Okay so at my school, I have been insulted so many times, over all these things. I have been insulted for my style, the music I listen to, how 'ugly' I am, etc. etc.
And it just hurts to hear all these things, and yes I have gone to a principal just once, and I was called a snitch and things just got worse. So what should I do about being verbally harrassed?
(if that is what you would call it o.0 )

hey i have the same problem but mine is alittle more phisiccal.

anyway just remember that tomorrow is a new day so get up and brush your sholders off.

dont let it get to you

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