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ok so theres this guy in my class who likes me. well call him *jack* ok so i have a BIG feeling that jack likes me. i HATE him, he annoys me and i know it sounds mean but hes kinda a dork. like im more popular then him not like im the mot popular but i hang out with girls like a level below popular girls and im cool with all the popular peeps. so anyways, this guy likes me and i always have the WORST luck in class. i got assigned as a partner for a project in history which SUCKS because he like annoys me and he pulled out my chair for me a few times in class and i always see him looking at me and if we leave a classroom after using a comp. he likes waits for me, and it annoys the crap outta me, and my math teacher put me at the same table as me in math. i hate it because i just want him to not like me. is there any way i can let him know im not interested without talking to him? the project is over on like monday or something but i just hate him so much and id never go out with him. so how do i let him no??? (link)
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well i mean this work for me. try these:
-ignoring him
-if he tries talking to you kinda show him you not interested by like looking around and like if you see some one you know and hes talking to you (lets say theyrr name is like casey) be like HEY CASEY and go run over to her and talk to her
-kinda roll your eyes at time
-try to prevent being anywhere near him
- if he pulls the chair from under you act really annoyed and angry be like "jack can you stop? you really aren't funny and that really hurt." say it with anger and annoynce in your voice
you could talk to your math teacher and explain to them that you dont feel comftorable around this boy. or make up an excuse like... i really dont get along with him and i cant get any of my work done because he bothers me constantly or something.
these serouisly might help:
http://www.wikihow.com/Avoid-a-Guy-Who-Likes-You%2C-Especially-if-He-Thinks-You-Like-Him
http://www.wikihow.com/Avoid-a-Guy-Who-Likes-You-in-High-School
http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Someone-Who-Really-Annoys-You
hope i helpedd =]
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hey before you answered my question about the guy because i couldnt tell if he liked me or was interested. and you said i should talk to him. im really shy but i want to talk to him. because like if i dont know. if we ever do become something i wont be able to then because well i cant now. so what are some things i can do or say to him as a astart? i have no classes with him so i cant talk to him there but i do have lunch with him. he eats with one of my friends. (link)
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well ask your friend if you can sit with her at lunch- she'll most likely say yes. make sure you sit somewhat near him (in talking range). he'll prob. say something to you because since before he was scared about the whole "group thing", well now he knows what type of people you hang out with - and guess what? hes one of them since hes hanging out at the table! if he doesn't- then he prob. is scared or shy or something like that. and since your shy you have to try to be outgoing and act the way you do when your with your friends (im guessing your louder and stuff because i know i am). since your sitting with a friend you prob. will. i know my best friend gives me courage to be flirty with guys and stuff so maybe it will for you. things prob. wont be awkward because people at the table are always going to be talking and having conversations. your friend is probably friends with him. and if she doesn't already know that you like him i would tell her because maybe she'll somehow get you guys to talk or introduce you to each other and things will pretty much go from there. if she doesnt introduce then im guessing she'll probably be talking to him and having a conversation - && then have her ask you something like...
her: omg that movie was so good blah blah balh .. dont you think *amanda*?
you: yeah...blah blah blah blah blah blah you know whats a really good movie ___ *hisnamee* did you ever see that before?
(haha i just made up something) but like if there in a conversation have you friend bring you apart of it and make it a comfortable and relaxing conversation. to start a conversation up with him.. just make sure hes looking at you and like eye contact type thing and be like hey. (hey) im ____ and your (lets say his name is kevin) kevin right? and then he'll answer and start asking questions and w.e. you know?
heres some examples:
you: hey im _______ and your _____right?
him: yeah
you: yeah i thought so. i like see you in the hallways sometimes
him: after what periods?
you: 3 4 and 7
him: oh. ha. yeah i see you sometimes to. (something like that idk)
you: what team are you on?
him: 3
and so on... of course the convo might be diffrent but thats how they ussaully start. and then later in the conversation like start having it get more interesting. maybe even ask him if he wants to come with you to go get a snack or w.e. =]
haha im weird at times ill ask like crazy questions sometimes. like out there. only if i dont really care who the guy is.. sometimes they find it funny. like i was at the movies with some guys i know and they had a friend and i was sitting next to him and he was texting some girl named julie and im like .. having some girl trouble? and hes like kinda. im like yeahh. need my help? and hes like nahhh. im like okay i bet i can guess her name because im like physic (i knew he wouldnt believe because ha im not but i kinda made it obvouis i wasnt) and hes like no your not and im like her names julie and hes like no way howd you know that. im like i told you i was physic and hes like you saw her name... im like hahaha yeah. and we started talking. like once i get to know i guy ill start asking weird questions like what would you do if i was 500 pounds? haha im weird but they find my questions funny and something to talk about. i dont know if its like the best thing to do if you really like a guy and your nervous because i dont know what i would do.
but the point of that was like.. i was outgoing and loud and i was comftorable and MYSELF. i didnt change. so just when you talk to him .. treat him like any guy. and be who YOU are. because thats what is important. and if your outgoing and loud well more power to you but if your shy you might want to over come that because thats just not going to make anything comfortable. you know? so my suggestions would be:
-be comfortable
-outgoing
-smile a lot
-laugh
-be nice
-be YOU
-if you can be funny but dont say anything stupid haha =]
and if he doesnt like who you are then you know that hes not the right guy. but i wouldnt worry about that because he prob. will like you beacause he wouldnt still be interested in you still after finding stuff out about you (you said he was asking your friend alot of stuff about you) so im guessing hell like you. just act as if you were talking to your best friend.
=] hope i helped. any thing else ask
how did it go =] ?
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so confused. okay so i like this guy.of course. and well my friend was talking to him. and shes like oh yeah by the way my friend likes you. and hes like oh ok. shes like yeah. then they continued their conversation on i dont know what. and then she said hes like oh is she blonde? and my friends like yeahh why you know who im talking about? and hes like i dont know. then like maybe the next day or so hes like oh is her name "polly" and my friends like whos "polly" and hes liek the girl that likes me. and shes like umm yeahhh how you know? and hes like because shes your friend. and shes like um ok? and then like my friend is like yeah ok so what oyu think of her? and hes like shes cute. and shes like haha yeahh. and then like she now says that he is always mentioning me and stuff. but like he never talks to me. and i went on vacation but he told my friend that he wouldnt talk to me because he couldnt figure out who was who in my group and he didnt want to embarass himself. so i dont know. does it seem like he may like me or? (link)
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i think hes like interested in you. im mean like im pretty good with figuring guys out and stuff so (ESPECIALLY since i live with three). but yeah. i think that hes interested. cuz like. hes asking about you adn stuff and wants to know what your group is and more about you etc. if you really like him you could go up and talk to him..maybe thats not your style. if it isnt then wait for him but make sure you just do what your doing now and if he looks at you or anything then smile etc.
hope i helped.
and if you have anymore questionss inboxx mee. =]
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im a freshman and this gurl from 2 lockers down talks to me sometimes and we sometimes walk to classes together. Anyways, im not that close to her and shes in 10th grde and seems more popular and i don't feel comfortbale "hanging out" with her. She gave me her phone number written on my hand to call her but i honestly dont like her that much and she seems like trouble i dont really want to ahng out with her, how do i tell her without hurting her feelings or getting her mad at me becuiase i still want to tlak to her in school (link)
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umm well ... i dont know what i would do. i would prob. talk to her and not tell her because i mean.. it will be awkqward to tell her and she probably WOULDNT be expecting that. at all. and remember how you said shes popular.. well you might not want to get on her bad side. i would just say continue talking to her and just not call her. and who knows maybe she isnt "bad". you could always give her a try and if she isnt the type of person you want to hang out with then just kind of lessen the time with her and eventually stop talkling to her.
if you really want to not talk to her... just aviod her in a way & show that you dont really want to talk to her by walking to some one else to class with and stuff. if you need anymore advice or you didnt find this helpful then just inbox me and ill give you some more. =]
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okay this girl is talking about me behind my back and steeling my friends and all of that crap.
i need some good ideas for revenge. like stuff thats not obviouse that i did it. im already going to get a bunch of my friends from another school to send some hatemail over myspace and im thinking about creamcheese deoderant stuff.
any more ideas?
kaythanks (link)
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haha sweet revenge. kay well im not ussaully one to give advice for like "getting back" or w.e. but since you already know what you want to do, i'll give you some ideas.
you could:
1. put flyers up around the school with her pic on it say lost dog, call.... (or something like that)
2. stuff her locker with like tampons or something so that is over flows and pours out when she opens it.
3. if she has boobs, then start a rumor somehow saying she stuffs. and then fill her locker with tissues.
4. put some of her stuff in the toliets
5. leave love letters in her locker from like a "popular" or "hot" guy && in the letter say like sit next to me at lunch or something like that. and then if she does she'll be completely embarrassed when she sits next or tries to talk to him when hes like ummmm...
i know those weren't really the best but w.e. and im not usually "mean" like that.
heres a website with some more ideas:
http://www.gwally.com/pranks/
http://www.prankified.com/school.php
http://www.thepayback.com/
http://www.nodoze.net/revengepranks.html
hope i helped =]
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