well my name's carly & i loveeeeeee to dance with all my heart and soul cos i'm just cool like that...psh yeah! well i deff. love smoothies and starbucks, shopping x3, hangin out with my girls, flirting (a must, haha), my cell phone, talking, laying out, swimming, going to the beach, going to the mall....ohh yeah and just being crazy, ow ow!
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Last year I was on the track team on the four by 100 meter relay. It was awesome and I loved it. This year was not the same. I was absent for a few days and missed my chance to be on the relay team. Another girl, who I happen to not really like, got on the team. This is her first year to be in sports and she honestly thinks she's better than everyone. She's one of those girl's whose egos are bigger than their wardrobe. I was upset, yes, because I wanted to be on the team not her. I was mad and her and I got in a little fight. I got over it quickly because I realized that it was stupid of me to be upset, but she got her "BFF" involved. A few days after the last track meet her BFF posted this in her xanga hope you did great at the track meet w/ YOUR relay team..and showed kristin whos relay team that really is..! (because we ALL know its not hers)... I'm upset, but I don't know what to do? Am i right to be upset? (link)
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heck yes i would be so mad at her! not her, but her best friend. if it were me i'd tell her "BFF" to stay out of it and if she wanted to be involved she could just have a piece of you, heck the whole thing. Work it out with the girl, NOT her best friend. And as far as i am concerned, it's not ANYONE'S relay team, there's more than ONE person on the team so i think that's really self-centered. you don't need to tell her that though, that would probably just make things worse. just prove that you are worth every cent and that you don't need her pity or her comments, you can stand strong and do BETTER than her. I would try talking to the coaches and say "yeah i know i wasn't there, i had some conflicts that just happened at the wrong time and it unfairly affected my position on the team. If there is any way possible to redeem myself or possibly fill in for someone who is absent, please do not hesitate to let me know." other than that, i would just ignore her...and travel in a group of friends, they'll feel less intimidated if you're with people. hope i've helped in one way or another! good luck!
always,
carly
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Ok well this may sound very dumb but here it goes . . . In P.E. we're doing swimming. Today I drowned during the class they were obviously able to resusatate me. I'm embarassed to go in school on monday. The girls in my school are very catty and news spreads fast at my school. I don't remember much of it. All I remember is trying to do a back dive into the pool and all of the water being pushed out of my lungs and trying to breathe next thing I know I'm laying o the hard floor with my class mates staring over me and the lifeguard. It was horrible and terrifying. How should I deal with the girls at school? Is it true that I could get Peunomia (sp?).
Thanks very much! (link)
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To deal with the catty girls at your school, just be very confident in yourself. If they make a comment to you about it, just say "You have the emotional rage of a teaspoon. I'm not afraid to tell it to your face because you have a two second rebound rate and you're back to doing the next catty thing. You're the most unfortunate person i think i've ever meet and i pity you only because i feel sorry that you have to live through someone else for you to be happy. You're so pathetic. At least inhaling water isn't as bad as inhaling the amount of hairspray you suck in every morning." not exactly those words, but just shove it right back in their face! Continue through out your day and just try to surround yourself with friends and try to stay close to a teacher that might be watching, they'll have a harder time confronting you if you're not alone. and about the peumonia thing, it could be possible, but i wouldn't know. you might want to ask your school nurse or family phsyician for more information about that. Good Luck! i hope it all goes well for you!
Always,
Carly
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