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advice

ok there is this guy i like im 14/f and he is 17/m i really like him and we have talk here and there but have never really got to hang out to get to no eachother but i really like him so i dont no really what to do so any advice would be great!

If you want this boy i think you should give it a shot to talk to him.

You can't base anything on talking "here and there", you have to make the effort to try and talk to him more.

So you should maybe try and find out where he hangs out or try and gain some form of communication of him i.e) mobile number, email etc

maybe then you could try and get to know him a bit and when the times right just ask him to hang out somewhere, even if it means you go with friends at first to calm your nerves, even though it isnt always ideal when you want to really get to know someone but its better than not speaking to him at all :)

Then just see how it turns out and then just take everything as it comes :)

Good luck and hope ive helped :)
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Hi, I liked this guy"Tanner" ever sence the second day of 6th grade ! all my friends asked him out for
me and i didn't want them to so i think it pressured him and he keeps saying no!He acts so happy and fun around me and sometimes he plays with my feet and
I blush then my friend says" stop playing footies"
and Tanner says "I know she wants to" that made
me blush so bad ! Does helike me but he just wants
to tourture me ? Or he likes me as a freind and
no more.
Thanks for lisining
Emmy/12

Its sounds obvious to me that tanner likes you.

its probably the fact that if your friends are asking him, he may not know if they are telling the truth or not.

So you have to bite the bullet and ask him yourself. i know it may be hard but its the only valid way of showing him that you really do like him and want to go out with him.

I dont think he is tortuning you, he perhaps thinks its cute when you blush-many boys do.

just pluck up the courage one day and get him on his own without your teasing friends!! hehe.

you never know, it may be the start of something amazing.

Hope this helped and good luck! :)
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i still like my ex, when we were going out it was so awkward cuz we didnt really know eavhother but now that weve broken up weve gotten really close and i think we both still have feelings for eachother but are afraid to admit it. How do i do it first even though im the girl? And what do i say if he doesnt like me back or gets freaked out. What do i say to tell him i still like him?
HELP

this reminds of me and my current boyfriend. like you, when we went out the first time and it didnt work because we didnt know each other well enough. Again like you's, after we broke up we stayed friends and gradually got closer.

In the end it just got to the stage that we both plucked up the courage to talk about it. It started to bloom after we admited we liked each other. What we did for ages before that was that started talking about who we both liked because we were friends.i liked him and he liked me.

So for ages we were telling each other how much we liked each other but not actually telling if u catch my drift.

Finally, he told me he liked me.then i told him i liked him back soon after. we didnt go out straight away though. We then started talking and stuff and really got to know each other.

Then one day i went over to his house to hang out. When we were waiting on the bus, we talked things over. and he then couragously asked where we stood. We then started going out :)

and thats the best thing cos im now in love like i havent ever been before

so what you have to do is, i mean he's ur friend, you can obviously talk to him. You just need to talk to him and then if he rejects you then you need to let him know that you dont want it to change anything between you's and then start acting normal again.

theres no point being awkward because you wouldnt want to lose a good friend out of this :)

hope this helps :)
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