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does he like me (link)
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Hello,
You need to elaborate more on your problem. You gave us your problem, but what is the background information? We need such significant information so we can have an understanding of your problem and actually help you find a solution.
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I kind of have a crush on a guy, even though I'm in a relationship right now. I am very happy with my boyfriend and don't intend to leave him for this guy.
This isn't the only time that I've had a work crush before when I was dating someone. I tend to find a cute guy who seems awesome, the kind of guy that I'd go for if I was single.
I'm feeling kind of guilty though, because my boyfriend always tells me that I'm the most beautiful girl in the world. I love him because he is the most sweetest, caring guy that I've ever been with, and he treats me amazingly, among other reasons.
Is it okay to have a work crush if you're in a relationship with someone else?
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I do not think it is okay, but it is definitely normal. I know how you feel, but sometimes when one is in a relationship and has a crush on another guy then the crush may grow into something else. What I would do if I were you is to put myself in your boyfriend's shoes and try to imagine how he would feel if he knew what you were feeling. No likes to feel cheated or unloved. What if your boyfriend had a crush on another girl, would you care? If you like another guy then your boyfriend lacks something or your crush is just infatuation or lust and possibly would go away.
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So I met this boy he is really cute. And he likes me but his friend is cute to. And he has this friend that is a girl but she is mad if he speaks to me. Both the boys are cute. Pleas help? One is Franco and the other is Francois. + both likes me !! (link)
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If they both like you then talk to them, who cares what their girl friend thinks. If she was really their friend, she would want their happiness so do not put any mind to her because she probably likes one or maybe both of the guys or is jealous that maybe if the guys like some other girl, their friendship would diminish.
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so i like this guy alot. but his best friend likes me and ive told him that i dont like him i like someone else. and today was really cold and i asked the guy i like if i could wear his jacket and he said "well i would give it to you but jason would get pissed at me." he said sorry then walked away with his jacket :( i think he might like me a little and i want him know that i like him..but i think hes scared of hurting his best friends feelings..what do i do?! (link)
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You have to explain to your crush's friend why you do not like him and you would like to be his friend. Your happiness is in jeopardy and your crush may never know that you like him. Also, I think you should be friends with your crush, but never lead him on. Remember you do not want them to break their beautiful friendship because of you. Be friendly, but do not be flirtatious. Who knows? You may like your crush's friend if you were to hang out with him. Just try to be patient and be both of their friends.
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I am from India and in 9th grade and there's a guy in my class and i kinda like him. I want to know what he feals about me without giving him a hint that i like him.I want to built a relationship with him and want him to be crazy about me as i am about him and to do so i don't wanna flirt or do something wrong that will spoil my image in school.My image in school and in front of teachers is good and i don't wanna spoil it. It's India and rules are quite strict......
Please help if you can. (link)
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I really understand where you are coming from because when I was younger I have gone through the same situation. First, you can't force someone to like you because that would be going against someone's free will. Imagine if you were him and your crush was you, you would feel like you were in dark room without any light. You have to give him time and be patient so I recommend you to be his friend and jut be yourself. You may ask questions or answer questions in class and maybe he would notice him. The more friendly and nice you are to the guy, he would notice those little things about you. Make sure the guy is not a jerk and that he a sweet guy with a big heart. Do not be obsessed with him because the consequences are not good. Good luck!
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