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Q: How do I better my social skills?
I'm pretty shy and I have a fear that people are always judging me which makes it hard for me to approach new people and talk to them and make new friends.
Also its hard to show to a boy I have interest in him, when its so difficult for me to start a conversation with him or have small talk.
It seems like the only time I'm really social and talkative to people I don't really know is after I've had a few drinks.
So how do I over come my shyness and insecurities so I can meet new people and be comfortable around them?
i am really shy to so i can relate but you shouldnt only open up to people when you drink.its going to be hard but dont be scared to go up to people they are not going to bite. you shouldnt care what they think if they like you then they like you if they dont then it is there loss.if you like a boy then first of all there are other ways to flirt like the eye flirt first look in his eyes then laugh and look off he will know that you are interested.dont be so insecure either the person who you are meeting is also insecure to and wondering what you are thinking of them.just remember everyone has their insecurities

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Hi, I'm Jaime and you can ask me anything because I have lots of anserws.Im 15 turning 16. I'm the first one that people come to if they need advice. So that's why I signed up for advicenators. I thought why should I only share my advice with my friends, but I should share it with everyone that I possibly can.:)

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