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Hey guys, do you have a problem when your friend dates your ex girlfriend? just imagine, you break up with this girl or she breaks up with you then, she goes and goes out with your friend? how do you act? what do you say to him?her? do you mind?
thanks insider scoop would be great!

Well do you mind? How you feel about this is entirely a personal matter for you but if they both single and they like each other theirs nothing wrong with them seeing each other. As a friend you have to grin and bare it and get used to it no matter how much you may dislike the idea. It may be hard at first, but it will get easier. Derfel XX

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im almost 15 and theres this guy thats 19 that ive reallly liked for a while. i dont know how to get over him, and he already left for college.....
i dont really know what to ask but if anyone has any advice thatd help

thank youuuu

Hi,
If theirs one thing I seem to say more than anything else when answering questions like this is follow your hart not your head. If you like this guy go for it. Dose it matter that he’s 19 and your 15, NO. Others will say it dose but you take no notice darling. If he thinks your too young for him or isn’t interested theirs not a lot you can do you’ll just have to take the risk. Good look and god bless.
Derfel
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I have this friend and I really like him, but my best friend likes him too. I just met him yesterday and my best friends has known him for awhile. I really like him and she does too. I asked him if he liked her and he said no, but he told other people before he met me that he liked her. Idk what to do! I'm so lost and I want to be happy for my friend but me happy too! I think I should get over it and let her have him since she's known him longer. But what do I do?

-signed sister in distress-

Hi sister in distress,

I would agree with you, stay clear. Its not worth risking a friendship over. Wait and see what happens between the two of them. It maybe nothing and then the way will be clear for you but if something does happen you'll know you made the wise choice to hang back.
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Derfel
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hey one of my bestest friends has this HUGE crush on this totally hot guy. and he is like so perfect for me. lol. well like he knows that my friend loves him and all and like we had heard rumors that he liked her too. but i dont think he does. ne way i am in love with this guy. and i really want him but i dont want to have a compatition with my best friend. but i just love this guy, and i WANT HIM!!!

You loyalty lies with your friend. Or it should do! Often the right decisions are the difficult ones. Choices like this are a test of character, prove you have one and do the right thing. It doesn't matter how much you want to get in his pants!
Derfel
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