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im 13 and in 8th grade and im 5'3...but i like someone thats 12 in 7th grade and is 4'7. i think he's gonna ask me out, but idk what to say cuz hes so short and younger than me....help! (i like him too but...) (link)
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If u like him, then i think u should go for it! Nothing should hold u bak from love especially if its only because he is younger and shorter than u! If u guyz truly like eachother...then he may be the best match for u!!
I hope this helps and good luck!
~DearBritney
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how to know you feel better about doing the right thing (link)
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Hey!
If you could please give me a little bit more informaion, I could answer your question better. Thanks!
DearBritney
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Okay, well...there is this teacher, let's call him Mr. Somebody. Mr. Somebody...well, he isn't really a teacher, but he just works with the guidance counsler in my school. Mr. Somebody is a very freaky guy. It doesn't show to many people...but he just seems like he would be one of those molesters to the younger girls. He looks at me weird and it always seems like he is staring at me and it makes me very uncomfortable...the guidance counslers office used to make me very comfortable but now my stomach churns whenever I think about it. It's not like he's done anything, but its just the way he is and I dont know where to turn. I don't want to talk about it to anybody because I don't want to blow this out of proportion because sometimes that's what i do and I don't know if I'm just judging incorrectly. But one day I was in the guidance counslers office and he came in and my stomach churned and we shook hands when we were introduced to each other and it was just so uncomfortable becasue he gripped so tight and it felt like the handshake lasted for minutes.He just made me feel so uncomfortable and when my guidance counsler talked to me i felt his eyes on my back and it made me nervous. And then that day in gym class and he came up to me when i was sitting down on the floor and kneeled and out is hand on my shoulder and was like "Blah blahs gonna pick you up today ok?" and he smiled and I backed away and nodded. And then later my guidance counsler came up to me and was like blah blahs gonna pick you up today okay? And I told her I already heard and she was like "Oh you did?" and i think that Mr. Somebody just overheard the phone conversation between my dad and my guidance counsler and decided to use it as an excuse to see me or something. I know that sounds crazy, strange and unlikey but you dont see how this guy is...what should I do because I dont think this guy is your average clean cut guy...he just seems so weird and I dotn wanna see him...I give him dirty looks, not meaning to but whatever...and there was also another incident that occured but I'll tell you about that in another letter it will be entitled "About Mr. Somebody continued"
Please help me...what should I do? (link)
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Dear Scared-Of-Mr.-Somebody,
Have you talked to your parents about what has been going on? If you sit down with them, they may be able to call the school and talk to the guidance counselor that you do feel comfortable around.
When the school hires somebody, no matter what, most schools do background checks. You can't be just an anybody to work with kids in a school.
If you still think that something is wrong, and you don't want to talk to anyone about it, talk to Mr. Somebody himself. Tell him that you don't like the way that he acts around you- and you would not like him to touch you and look at you like he does. Talking to him about these things may actually help you- and not hurt you. If none of that helps, seach online for a helplinen...I'm sure that there are many possibilities out there. Also check with your friends---see if they feel the same way abour Mr. Somebody as you do.
Hope This Helps!
Good Luck!
Signed,
Britney
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I've been living on my own for a while but now I'm thinking about moving in with a girl I work with, because frankly I'm bored living on my own. Will I get sick of the roommate thing really fast or what? Before I always thought roommates where what you got if you couldn't afford to live alone... I can afford it, I'm just lonely. (link)
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Dear Lonely,
If you think that you are really ready to live with someone else, I would confront the girl that you want to live with about it first. Maybe she doesn't like the whole idea. If she is up for it, I would say give it a good. It may take some adjusting, since you are used to living alone. If things aren't working out after you are living together, you could either move back to living with yourself, or try finding another roommate.
Good luck!
Signed
DearBritney
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At my school there are some kids who think being Jewish is a bad thing. I am half Jewish and one of my friends is too. We always get mad when we hear kids saying it. Some kids say things like- You Jew- as if its bad. They dont even care who they say it to they will say it to christians catholics or jews. It really make me mad but I dont know what to do. Plus most of the kids who say it are in the popular group witch me and my friends are not it. What should I do? (link)
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Dear anit-jew,
The best advice that I can give you at this point is to rub it off. In life, people will say things to other people that aren't necessarily the greatest, but you just have to never let them see you sweat, as the old saying goes. If it really begins to bother you, talk to your parents, a school counselor, the principal, or even your teacher and tell them what has been happening. I'm sure that they will help you out.
Signed
DearBritney
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