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Q: ok, so the the 5th day of sckool my friend said that on friday eric (the kid i like) said he liked me a little, and was going to ask me out! & then my other friend said eric said he wanted to meet me after sckool where no one was because he had to ask me something, but then he said never mind, & then he told me he liked my friend britt, but wed. he told me he doesnt like her anymore and likes someone new.. im so confused, and i dont know what to do, advice needed urgently.. thank you 13/f

Okay.
I'll make it plain and simple.
If someone tells you info about your crush, go to him and ask him if its true. If you can't talk to him, why are you gonna go out?
Don't listen to people who tell you these things. They're jelous and they want to ruin your relationship most times.
Just talk to him. He might be nervous. Wait it out.
Good luck
KYlie

Q: Okay..skool starts on monday and im freakin out..im about to go into highskool and i only know my 1 of my friends that are going to the same skool..and we have 3 classes together plus lunch..okay..my question is..how can i talk to more people?! i dont wanna be the little quiet shy girl..i mean..im really crazy if you get the chance to get to know me..(seriously..) but when i meet knew people my face gets red and i don't really know how to start up a conversation actually..its just that like..i dont like talkin to people i don't know. gahh its soo bad..anndd pleassee!! dont tell me to be more outgoing becuz i am..well mayb not the first day of skool..but..can yall give me sum advice?? tell me what i need to do to start talkin to people..and how to be like..the class clown and stuff in class! PLEASE I`LL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERS!!

I've been to 7 schools.
What you do is you could hang around your one friend, meet the friends she meets, and/or you cna talk to people in your classes you don't have with your friend that look like they would fit in with your othe friends. I personally don't think it's smart to have best friends in the nerdcategory, the popular category, and then the goth category.. it gets too complicated because nobody likes each other at your parties. But that's just me.

Good luck!

Q: okay thers this guy i like alot alot alot!! and i think he might know.. but im not sure... well we were talking online and we got along so well!! and then i talked to him on the phone for a little bit (maybe like 5-10mins) and he seemed sorta mad/iritated/tired...so i told im id talk to him later... but then i called him the next night and he never answered... i saw him in calss and he completly ignored me!! i was like ummm hello?! so i was really upset!! well i like him a lot and i have no idea what i should do to make him think of me as a really good friend/ girlfriend... any tips?? and also how can i keep him interested??

*he broke up with his girlfriend of eight months in like dec i think... so hes gettng over an ex (possibly)

but please help me out on this!! despreatly need help!! thanks!!

Maybe he doesn't want tog et into another relationship. Maybe what he needs after this breakup is a friend to relax with. Maybe you could just be his friend and when he realized how cool you are then he'll ask you out.

Q: i used to go out wid this kid(lets call him jordan)and then i broke up wid him because i found out he was cheating on me with this girl(lets call her becky)this was in around october novemeber and it ended in january and it turns out he was cheating on my for like a month and now jordan dumped kasey and now kasey still likes him but jordan likes me and he has since the 4th grade but im starting to have feeling for him again and my guy friend(lets call him mike)just recently told me he was gunna ask me out on monday and i like him but i dont kno if i can trust him because og him cheating on me the 1st time but i really really like him what should i do???

please help

sorry for the longness

He asks you out, say no and give a reason. If he seriously wants you back, he'll make himself better by fixing the problem. If he doesn't fix it, he's not worth it to you.

Q: i'm 16/f. is it okay to date a guy that's younger than me? i like this guy but hes 2 years younger than me, i'm a junior...hes a freshman. Thanks guys!

Of course! The only people talking about you would be the ones who are jelous that you have a great bf and they have a crappy one!

Q: i'm a freshman in high school.. 14 years old, and i'm dating a sophomore. all these girls my b/f hangs out with don't like me. today, these two girls - anna and liz were talking to my ex boyfriend, corbin about me and ryne. anna asked corbin if me and my b/f had sex.. (its not true).. liz said no, corbin said no, and anna didn't believe them. anna hates me w/ a passion by the way.. but yeah.. she's going to go around telling evryone a stupid rumor, and my b/f already bitched her out and went to the dean and told him. but what can i do to make this rumor go away or stop? or how can i stop them from ruining my reputation? i have a good rep right now and i don't want it ruined.. plz help! i'll rate all 5's for an effort.

If you love your boyfriend, that's all that matters. Anna and liz just like him and are jelous and would do anything to get your rep down and you guys broken up. Real people with brains and any balls whatsoever will know that you're way more responsible than that rumor and they won't believe it. for everybody else, just use your acting skills and say things like "Where the hell did you get that from?" or laugh and say "You retards actually believe that?!" I hope I helped. ~Kylie~

Q: On my bus the older kids are mean to my best friend. They always steal her stuff. Like yesterday she had a gameboy with her and was playing sims and this kid stole it and wouldn't give it back until she gave him gum. She had to jump some seats to get it back. Then today she wouldn't give him gum again so he started stabbing her with a needle. He treatened to stab me with it if I didn't move so he could get inm our seat. They my best friend threw the gum out the window and he and his friends started cursing her off and trying to cut her with it. I want to find a way to help but I don't know how. What should I do?

you should write a note to the driver or principal or teacher or some adult. You should show it to them and hold it up and say "You know what this is? A note to an adult asking you to be written up". The same thing happened to me and my friend did that and they stopped. Good luck! ~Kylie~

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I'm Kylie and I'm here to help. My dream is to go to the Naval Academy and be a Navy Shrink. Please ask me whatever you want, because I will try my best to help you to solve your problem.
Kylie:)