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I am 19 years old and I am a female my partner Is also 19 years and we loved each other. I and my boyfriend had been dating for a while now. Until one day we did sex . Then I moved away from him to go further my studies . One day he video call me to show him my viganal part in the phone . The problem with me I have never seen such things before nor showing it but once I told him that he was like are you shy of me ? Why are you shy if I had slept with you already?? What should I do?? Should I show it to him? And the time when am going to be with him is very far and he might think am ignoring him. I need advice please. (link)
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The short answer is a great big NO !!! Anything, and I mean ANYTHING, you post electronically can and most likely will be shared with others, strangers, the internet, and more. And you will never be able to control who gets it, ever .Permanently.
The longer answer includes not doing things like this because soeone else wants you to do it, if you have any hesitation at all yourself. Its not about being shy; its about stupidity and staying safe.
Honey, you are naive. Look the word up. Learn how to spell "my viganal part", correctly. And while you're at it, I sure hope you are smart enough to know how to use birth control regularly and correctly, every single time. You don't need to become a single mom, or even a married one right now.
And if your so - called "boyfriend", who sounds more like someone using you for sex, pressures you to do what you don't want to do or have the slightest doubts about doing, as you clearly have, do not worry about pleasing him at your own expense. Instead, always be your own best friend, first !
So do the right thing, for yourself ! Dr. Stephanie
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This was straight forward. Thank you for your kindness and your good advice .
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