25 Female. Just a down to earth girl living life to the fullest. Ive had the ups and downs. Depression/anexity/family problems/sex life/relationships. I work in outpatient physc and love giving my best advice as possible.
Gender: Female
Location: Massachusetts
Occupation: Outpatient Pysc
Age: 25
Member Since: November 12, 2013
Answers: 69
Last Update: March 16, 2024
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So in high school I never really had that group of friends I would usually jump from group to group and never really had a best friend I mostly had acquaintances. However I'd like to say I hung out with certain groups of people more than others and would even hangout with them outside of school. So now that high school is done I don't see these people at all anymore and I've realized how I don't have any friends and that most of these people were only my friends because we saw each other everyday. I feel like it's my fault because I should've tried to develop a close relationship with these people cause now if I see a photo or a post of social media of these groups of people hanging out with each other I get sad because they didn't event think to invite me and when I ask if they're free they always say they're busy. I'm always the one to text these people first and if I don't text them at all I won't hear from them. I've tried so hard to make new friends at my new school but if you've seen my previous posts you'd know the friends I made were either fake or just acquaintances who just came for lecture and don't want anything outside of class. Please help with tips on either how to get these old friends to remember I exist or how to make new friends? Cause being shy literally ruins everything thanks in advance (link)
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Hey! I TOTALLY feel your pain. In highschool I would hang out with some groups of friends too. I did sports but I didn't have any friends on my sports team. I would talk to some of the girls and be friends with them but I was way too shy to even make any friends and I actually became really depressed over this so I understand where you are coming from. Girls are just so mean and I don't know how many times I can say that. For me I started making friends from my work..Once I left highschool I went to college yeah but I didn't dorm there I didn't make any friends. I don't have 1 friend from highschool and im 25. So I understand where you are coming from and its hard. I don't know how I got through highschool honestly. Anyway, my first job was a waitress/hostess as a restaurant. I made a lot of "work friends" But I also made probably one of my best friends I ever had from work. So if you do work maybe try and spike up a friendship there? Also, my other suggestion is if you are from the US they have an app called Bumble. You can use it for dating but there is also a button called Bumble BFF. I recently have met many girlfriends to have drinks with and hang from this app. I 100% recommend downloading it if you can. Just try not to stress about things. If you want to reconnect with old friends I would just make a plan have the suggestion, date and time so they can give you a yes or no answer. If you don't feel the love back as much as the love you give try not to stress over it and move on. It can be lonely and girls are really hard to meet. I wish you the best of luck and remember none of this is your fault so don't blame yourself!
xoxox
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Thank you for this advice hopefully when I work this year I make some close friends..fingers crossed
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