25 Female. Just a down to earth girl living life to the fullest. Ive had the ups and downs. Depression/anexity/family problems/sex life/relationships. I work in outpatient physc and love giving my best advice as possible.
Gender: Female
Location: Massachusetts
Occupation: Outpatient Pysc
Age: 25
Member Since: November 12, 2013
Answers: 69
Last Update: March 16, 2024
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well i been heartbroken over this guy named josiah for 4-5 years, we were close and almost dated. he led me on and used me til didnt need me anymore, and is my first love, kiss who lost virginity to etc. we ent from talking alot flirting etc to all sudden it stopped. idk why still, and foundout from someone that is married now. i tried sending a friend request on facebook, playing it off as dont have these feelings still, but denied request but didnt block. want talk to him so badly, as did have a miscarriage of his child and never griefed properly as kept it from my family cause they lecture me about having feelings for him tho thats not something i can help , tried everything i could think of to move on, and now in a relationship with lance, who treats me like queen do care for just not as much as do josiah. he knows had thing for him in past, as told him how he hurted me badly emotionally dont think it was intentional tho cuase he's best guy i ever knew before lance. what should i do? and want make my current relationship work though im just settling for lance since cannot have josiah like we were... (link)
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Im so sorry for your loss and heartbreak. Im not sure on how to answer this because of your grief and sadness I can't even imagine the pain you are feeling. I think you just never felt the closure with Josiah to move on. Your first love is always hard to get over. I dated someone for 5 years and I could not handle the break up. I lost my virginity to him too. He probably deleted your friend request knowing he has moved on and probably doesn't want to reopen a chapter that is closed. He has moved on and is married. I know its hard but you should be happy for him. If he is happy you should be too. Everyone has a right to feel happy. You cannot help who you like and its hard. I suggest to go see counseling because it seems like you have a lot that you are holding in and I am not a professional to help. Every love is different. If you don't see anything going on with this new guy Lance you can't be stringing him along. Josiah will always have a piece of your heart but I don't think its meant to be. Just work on yourself and get through day by day. It will hurt less, time heals everything. I wish nothing but the best for you xoxo
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thanks n i am seeing therapist thursday. and am glad he's happy but its not fair to my broken heart and having to go through this but am happy for him. thought he was my soulmate.
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