Member Since: April 7, 2015
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Last Update: January 31, 2025
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well i been heartbroken over this guy named josiah for 4-5 years, we were close and almost dated. he led me on and used me til didnt need me anymore, and is my first love, kiss who lost virginity to etc. we ent from talking alot flirting etc to all sudden it stopped. idk why still, and foundout from someone that is married now. i tried sending a friend request on facebook, playing it off as dont have these feelings still, but denied request but didnt block. want talk to him so badly, as did have a miscarriage of his child and never griefed properly as kept it from my family cause they lecture me about having feelings for him tho thats not something i can help , tried everything i could think of to move on, and now in a relationship with lance, who treats me like queen do care for just not as much as do josiah. he knows had thing for him in past, as told him how he hurted me badly emotionally dont think it was intentional tho cuase he's best guy i ever knew before lance. what should i do? and want make my current relationship work though im just settling for lance since cannot have josiah like we were... (link)
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Wake up! Allow yourself to prefer Lance's acceptance to Josiah's rejection, instead of pining. Do something nice for Lance. When you have grown stronger, then revisit your problem.
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thanks for trying on advice, but its not that simple. and he acted like he loved me back which makes it harder move on, and did not reject me either. not pining either, and not like havent tried to rid the feelings..would been nice know some ways to move on or least be friends with josiah.. but guess not gonna happen. thanks for trying help. and on lance we are taking it slow and will do something nice for him like always do. just so conflicted and sensitive right now, as summer months come closer.
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