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I just want to feel feel pretty sometimes. So basically back in December my friend and I were walking around a mall and some guy came up to her and said "hey sweetness" which is slang for "hey beautiful" I just shrugged it off because in high school all the guys used to chase her and I was always the invisible friend pushed to the side. So last Friday that same friend and another girl and I went to a different mall and we saw a group of guys. Long story short those guys followed us throughout the whole mall but I know If my pretty friend wasn't there they wouldn't have bothered. So my friend tested it by waving at one of them and the guy nearly had a heart attack and he was basically walking backwards watching her leave after waving back. So then my other friend she was dressed nice was saying those guys were coming for her and my pretty friend and didn't even acknowledge me at all. I'm used to it though so I didn't say anything. So I just need some tips to look more attractive, here's a description on how I look,so I'm 18 but I have a baby face so people sometimes mistake me for 13 I want to start wearing makeup but I need a job first cause I can't really afford makeup right now. There's nothing wrong with my body it's on the curvy side but I cover it up with baggy clothes because when I don't, guys approach me and I already know it's for the wrong reasons. One time I was wearing a maxi skirt and a guy cat called me from his car and then when I turned around he had a look of shock when he saw my face and quickly sped away. Anyways my friend she wears makeup and she's curvy as well but she was wearing her winter jacket, so was I so you couldn't see either of our shapes. The difference with the both of us that we're both black but she's light skinned like Rihanna and I'm dark skinned like Kelly Rowland and if you look online you can see dark skinned black girls go through a lot of struggles. I was hit on back in September wearing my baggy clothes by some guy but I turned him down cause I was 17 at the time and he looked about 20 (I turned 18 in December) and he was also an international student so even though we both go to the same school we would be culturally different (link)
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I would say adviceman49 has hit the nail on the head. Maximise your positives, and eliminate the negatives! How about checking out some life-style magazines (there are so many!) and/or some all-out fashion publications like Harpers, Vogue and Cosmopolitan. Who's built like you? Who has that youthful (very much in demand, whoever heard a woman say she wished she looked older??) face? How do they dress? How do they make-up? Which do you admire? Forget all about looking 'easy' or 'slutty' and all that rubbish. How do those girls actually look? The word is SENSATIONAL! Not every guy who cat-calls or wolf-whistles you is gonna even get close, is he? You've sussed that some guys are just oppotunists and punters and you keep them at arm's length, by the sound of it? Of course, when you spot one who's making all the right moves, showing some potential, and thinking you might want to get to know him a little better? You're well placed, looking great and you know it! Naturally it's important if or when a relationship comes about that you click on many different levels. But that visual attraction is and will nearly always be our first 'point of contact'. The thing that makes us want to know more. Go on. Knock 'em dead!
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