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So im 19/f and I started masterbating 2 years ago. Before then I had never been into anything sexual at all but one day I just started doing it and i havent stopped. Despite my many attempts to stop. Now its become a habit that I have to do almost everyday. I just get the slightest feeling and then I have to do it. Not only that but I imagine weird ass shit when I do it that I would never condone in real life. Like I just have this feeling come over me that it doesnt matter what I think of cause it turns me on, but after im done masterbating its like ew no what is wrong with me and I have to stop. But i never do. I picture my bf with different girls, and with family members. And idk why it turns me on so much. Is there a reason for this? Is this normal? How do I stop fantasizing about these kinds of things so much? How do I control my sensations and thoughts? I heard that keeping yourself busy works and ive done that before but its hard to because Im by myself with a lot of time on my hands the majority of the time. So how do I control it and have more purer nicee fantasies? Thanks! (link)
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Hey, so I was reading that book that every parent gives you when you hit puberty, and in the back it said that masturbating is completely normal and I saw a puberty video that said when you hit this stage you start fantasizing things you would never do or think about in real life. It also said that you may feel guilty about it because no one has ever told you it's okay. So this is completely normal and nothing to freak out about. Though if you feel like you are doing it too much you can try focusing on activities that will force you to stop thinking about it when you feel the urge, but like I said it's completely normal.
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Oh I didnt know that. Thank you so much!
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