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Hey Guys!
My Name is Dan, i'm 23 from Australia!
I'm a passionate gamer! Love watching The Walking Dead!

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I 'm confused about my situation... I don't know what to think and I'll like to ask for someones opinion. I have a online crush...We've met on a support website, she was my listener on 7 cups of tea.com an anxiety and depression site. At the time I met her I was going through a break up and I needed someone to talk to. She was very helpful and a good adviser with my situation. Few weeks later we exchanged our Instagram and then later our facebook. One day I told my crush:

I am grateful that I've meet you. You understood me from the beginning and knew exactly what to say. I like that! Lol I love to talk...about anything! And if someone can keep up with my Gemini side it is a major plus! It is nice to share many things with someone who would listen and communicate. If we lived near each other I would totally ask you out lol

Her reply:
Me too. Haha well I am always here to talk, to share things, even when things aren't going so well.. I'm always here haha!! Well it's a shame I'm on the other side of the world!!

She lives in the UK...

When she sent me her reply I had to ask her what is her sexuality...
she said "Well, so far I've been In two relationships with guys. But I haven't met anyone who I know I want a future with. And I wouldn't mind if it was a guy or a girl, as long as they made me happy. Does that make sense?"
Although, she doesn't lable herself and she is finding more about herself...
We've been talking everyday since I sent her that complement. I asked her that we should video chat sometime and she was willing to face time asap.
She and I face time twice, I called her first and the next day she called me. There were alot of shy smiles and laughing. Giving each other complements and being kind to one another. We clicked very well, talked about anything that was on our mind. As of now we've been talking everyday.

I have no clue what are her intentions with me, as far as I know now we are just friends.
I really like her but I don't know what to think of this...
It's a shame that she lives in the UK. And btw she is 18.... i
I'm 28 year old lesbian moving on from my first love and ex best friend.
And my crush is aware of my past heart breaks...because I vented to her before we befriended on facebook.

Should I tell her that I like her or is she just being a kind friend?
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Hey there!
Be patient with me, i'm new to this!

I'm sorry about your past experiences, break-ups are always hard even if they are for the best.

I'm glad you seeked advice and help with your anxiety! Nobody should have to deal with that alone.

From her response to your message, she seems pretty happy with what you said about her and wishing she was close to you, and obviously noting that she would be happy with a male or female that could make her happy. She sounds pretty interested in my opinion, obviously the time difference sucks, my family live back in the UK, I live in AU.
And a long distance relationship can be hard, but if you are committed then you will make it work together.

Seeing people face to face is a great way of getting to read people, it sounds to me that it went well, if you're still talking to them then that's and amazing result. Be confident, she knows a lot of your past, if she didn't care she wouldn't still be here.

I hope I could help.
DanSkittles13, 23, AU.


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