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I am 17 year old girl and is having a bestie from almost 4 years and I share each and evrything to him and last year on my bday he asked me for liplock and as I feel whatever he does is right so I did it and moving onwards we started being physical but not exactly sex and now he wants to fuck me and he says I promise their would be no harm and I wont do it that hard that your vagina would bleed...I want to know should I go for it or is their any harm?? And he knows my family as well ..he is even one of my faraway relative.but he never ever did anything wrong with me and I trust hi more than my parents. (link)
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Before you do anything you need to realize that sex is a big step. It has to be something that you are ready for and you have to be sure you can handle the worst case scenario after the fact. Also, you almost need to look at it from a legal standpoint as well... I'm not saying it should stop you, but since you're under 18 and he isn't, you have to understand that by law he would be in the wrong. (Of course you could always just wait until you turn 18). And as for him saying you wont bleed... if you're a virgin chances are you will bleed (not necessarily a lot), but it is natural to the first time no matter how "hard" he does it. Also, since he knows your family well, you should consider how they would feel or what they would do if they found out (another good reason you might want to wait until you're 18). And finally, a bit of personal advice, you said he was a faraway relative... I personally wouldn't have sex with any one related to me, no matter how faraway. And please trust your parents, they may not seem to always know what they are talking about to you, but they really mean well and they want what is best for you! Hope this helped! :)
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Thanks alot for ur advice it surely helped me...but one more thing to say that as you said the thing that your parents trust then uptil now as I said I had did almost evrything except sex...so should I be guilty about all these things I did and stop talking to him?
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