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Recently I added a question but did not register im extremely bad about that. So ill retype my question and hopefully someone can help....so here it is...kinda embarrassing
Im slim thick I have a big breast and a huge butt boys seem to be way to attracted and its killing me they make dirty jokes about me, and touch me the way I dont wanna get touch ...I wrapped my self with a jacket on my waist like all over me. I have no idea what to do. I cannot talk to my parrents about it ...its embarrassing. Im 13 in 8 grade! I dont need this! Gosh im so shy to speak
up I just want to kill myself its like everywhere. I dont want to be a slut. Im really too smart forthat. What should I do to help myself. I really dont like my body for all of this problem. I never earn any respect. ( forget about the sentences underneath having problems with my phone)
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Hey! Having a rather more 'womanly' figure than maybe some girls of 13 have yet certainly does not make you a slut. And it doesn't justify boys touching you in ways you don't want or welcome either. If it happens at school, tell them it stops or you'll inform the teachers. Out of school, your parents (and hence their parents, because I doubt your mum and dad will let it ride if it's upsetting you)should be the threat. It is never right to do this. It's a proper offence against your person. Tell them that too. Sexy/suggestive/rude comments are a bit harder to stop. Many a pretty girl will get a wolf-whistle and a suggestive comment or two when walking past a gang of builders, or lads out on the town. It's pretty harmless stuff, so keep your cool. How about laughing it off, and countering it with a snappy "Yeah, in your dreams!" type comment and walk away. Maybe think of it as a bit of a compliment rather than something which makes you dislike your body? I mean a girl can't look TOO pretty can she? And no, being pretty/sexy doesn't make you a slut either. Might make you a bit of a heartbreaker though! But do remember that touching/handling/pressing against you you etc when you don't want it is a definite No-Go.
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Haha love the advice! Yasss I love it! Thnxssss
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