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People shouldn't get abused .
its not right ... this world is so cruel .
I've been sexually abused all of my life . The thing that kinda kills me the most is that it was my own Father . man I swear I talk way to much . I have such a big mouth for the wrong reason ... I know I need to tell someone .
but im to scared I wish someone could do it for me ... but I know I have to .
and you cant help someone who wont help themselves... man sometimes I feel like just ending it all already and just commit suicide .
I cut myself do everything and cry but I just cant keep myself together . I hate my self my body . it's all my fault .
- just a stupid 14 year old girl who let people touch her because she was to scared to ever say anything .
Hello, beautiful girl.
You're right. The world is so cruel. But you can stop it, and I assure you, you can.
There are many girls nowadays who get abused from their friends, relatives, and even in their own home. And not just any abuse, but sexually abused. I figured that you are very depressed at the moment especially you are cutting yourself because of the guilt inside of you.
Do you cry every night? Do you sometimes ask yourself why do you have to live in this world? Well darling, don't be afraid to admit it to yourself. I know you are brave. And I know you will never commit suicide. Killing yourself is for losers. And you are not one of them.
There are many girls who are also in the same pace as you are. And maybe by now, they already ended their life. I don't want you to be like them. Ending their life without anyone knowing about what they're going through. So you, my dear friend, need to spill it out before everything is too late.
You need to tell this to someone who you really put your trust into. It may be your mother, your best pal, classmate, teacher, or anyone who you really know. Spill it out, show them how those people messed you up. They will never know unless you tell them truth. Tell them all of the horrible things they have done to you. Don't be afraid and don't be shy because it's a very serious situation. And also, call 911 to get further more help on dealing with this kind of people. In the law itself, they must be put to jail immediately especially this is a case that must be justified.
Close your eyes. Breath in, and out. Then think about all of the things they have done to you. Open your eyes widely and make a smile to your face, and tell yourself, "For now on, I am not that stupid girl anymore. I am brave, beautiful, and amazing. I am not just a fourteen year old girl. I'm a matured and a very special girl. And today is a new beginning." Tell this to yourself, with all of your heart. Time will heal all of the bad memories created on you. And, don't forget to pray for your happiness. Don't forget to say "Thank you" to God. Say thank you because you overcome this challenge. He didn't want you to be ruined like this. But I'm sure he is happy for you. Because you are now holding his hand to the right path.
That's all beautiful girl. The next time someone do this to you. You now know what to do.
From your imaginary friend,
The LittleWoman
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your wonderful advice! You made me feel better. Thank you for caring so much! :)