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You can call me Ella. I love to help people and give out advice. I'm going to be completely honest. I may not be the best advice giver in the world, but I can promise you that I will try my best and take your questions to heart and do my best to help you :) That I can definitely do!

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Ella

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Im 20 and a female, i will be using letters (v) and (k) for the guys

this guy (v) i been talking to is all that i could ask for he's the man of my dreams i could say but we haven't gotten to love, but i like him a lot.

the story twist around now

i was talking to this other guy (k) before (v), and (k) was a cool man but he started to get super crazy controlling and assumed i was having sex with other people, the crazy thing about that is, me and (k) haven't had sex haven't kissed let alone we haven't even said we were together like boyfriend girlfriend.

me being 20 i gave him a chance

so i meet (v) around the time where i told (k) we can no longer talk but (k) is now extremely cray like saying he's going to shot up my house and spit on me if he see me on the streets..

so I'm no with (v)
and (k) describes what I'm wearing and what i did during the day he even knew when my cousin got suspended from school… this is so crazy he won't leave me alone he sends me text saying he loves me then say he hope i die and i got sick of it one day i got my gun and told him to grant his threat n come shoot up my house i was waiting he called back said he was playing… so it died down he say he loves me and wyd babe i don't reply but I'm still kinda scared to let this slip away


i told (v)
like any man would do he said if he sees him he's go beat his a@&

but i want to know should i wait or do something quick

Hey sweetie,

I would recommend going to an adult for help, immediately, regardless of whether that person is a family member or a public authority figure, like the police. If it's died down, I still think you should talk to someone close to you that is an adult and that can help you should K come looking for you again. If he does come looking for you or contacts you again, you'll have someone who is up to date with all the information needed and can offer you help immediately,

Other than that, if you think he won't mind or if you feel that it is appropriate, you could block his number so he won't bother you through messages and/or phone calls.

I hope I helped! :)

Love,
Ella

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