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Okay so I'm 14/f and recently found out I was bisexual. All the people I have come out to have supported me and I'm thankful. I haven't had my first... gay kiss if thats what you want to call it but I can't find the right girl to have it with. I am really curious though! Any advice? (link)
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Bi or bi-curious at 14 isn't anything to worry about and I'm glad people around you have been cool about it. Finding the right partner to kiss and explore your feelings is quite tricky. Like Dragonflymagic points out, it's the same as a heterosexual kiss (with a boy in your case). If you're getting on, feeling close and the urge to enjoy a kiss together arises, it will arise...and it will happen. We kiss who we want to kiss, and be kissed by. Another bi-girl won't automatically want to kiss you just because you are bi. So don't assume this is the case. She'll have to like you plenty too. It's not going to be 'Hey...we're both bi...that's reason enough to start snogging each other, right?" Wrong! It's like the way a girl doesn't want to kiss any old boy just because he happens to be heterosexual and male. There's got to be a bigger connection than that. If things seem to be going along nicely with a friend, you might try dropping a few hints about kissing, and see how she responds. Curious doesn't always mean we're going to realise things. It means we're...welll...curious about the idea! If her response is clearly on the negative side of neutral, best not to push it any further I reckon? If she seems keen, it migh happen pretty damn quick! All the best mate.
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