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Hi! So I'm female and am 13 years old. So basically I had a close friend who I hang out with loads, and I developed a crush on her. I started hanging out with her a bit less and found a new 'best friend' to hang out with. And yeah I developed a really bad crush on her. Now as I'm hanging out with someone new- I'm developing a crush on her now! I don't know what to do. I haven't told any of these that I have a crush on them, but I just feel really awkward because I only normally have one crush at a time, but if I'm with them and hanging out with any of them. The feelings will come back. I say a crush as in I get the feelings to make it a dating relationship rather than a friendship. I don't know why I'm doing this, I'm at an all girls school by the way. If I was at a mixed school I probably would be more fixated on the boys (I'm bisexual by the way) but I'm not so I just keep on doing this. I don't know what to do! Advice would really be appreciated- thanks! xx
Well are these girls also bisexual or lesbian because if they are not then I am not sure there is much you can do other than maybe nonchalantly ask "have you ever had feelings for another girl? ". If they say yes then you could ask other things like "have you ever thought of being in a relationship with another girl? ". If the answer is yes or if you already know they are interested in females then the only thing you can do is be honest and ask how they would feel being in a relationship with you. Then atleast you will know you have a chance in the future. I think ,being a girl myself, I like it and would be flattered by the honesty and boldness. If they answer no to being with another girl or having feelings for another girl then you will know you will just have to appreciate the friendship and wait for someone else to come along. You will have to choose only one and take your time to make sure you make the right choice if they both say yes. hope it works out!!! Good luck!
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Thanks! I know that none if them have problems with lesbians, gays, bisexuals etcetera- but none of them are into girls. Other than one of them who hasn't said anything as such, but has a really close friend and I think that they may be going out. But I'm just not going to say as I'm at that age where I think that they might not appreciate it- but thanks for answering!
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