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Hi there,boy Im in hot water.
This guy I like likes looking at other women.We followed each other on Instagram.And every time I log in,it shows me what people I follow liked pictures,and how many. Well,about 90% of his posts are all sexy and suggestive photos,I was sick of seeing crap! Especially when he has me to stare at.I have brought this up many times.So I told him I wasnt sending him anymore photos to his phone.
I said ''you get sexy photos for free,and see them all the time why should I bother? Just the last straw''
And he responded ''Oh my god...you're right.This is the last straw''
And then I said''Dont be upset'' And sent some other messages
And he said ''I'm not talking to you right now. Stop blowing up my phone''
He unfollowed and blocked me on his Instagram.
So,how bad is this? Os he leaving me? Am I ever going to hear from him again? Or did I jut blow it? Anything? Is there anything I can do?
Or is it a done deal? I said I was sorry. And I am.I love him very much.
So,is it over,and does he need his space? (link)
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Making a point, and confronting an issue which you find unacceptable is not screwing-up. In this case 'NOT screwing up' would entail you putting up with the behaviour, pretending it did not bother you? Clearly it did/does bother you. I would very much 'give him his space' if I were you. Make it known that you have no interest pursuing the relationship while he continues with this behaviour anyway, so his moaning and blocking are likewise of no interest to you. If he decides his sexy posts and photos and on-line flirting are more important to him than YOU then you haven't lost much have you? In fact, all you've lost is a guy who shows no concern or respect towards your feelings. You can do better than this. X
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Thanks so much!!! I do appreciate this!
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