While I do not have any children, I do have a younger brother who can be quite adventurous. He enjoys linking like rock climbing and white water rafting. And I know my parents worry about him a bit when he goes on such trips. That being the case, I can only assume that I would feel a similar way if a child of mine wanted to get into something fairly risky.

That being said, it is in the nature of a loving parent to worry about their children, regardless of what path they may pursue in life. Even if it's something completely safe by most people's standards,like when a child moves away to attend college, or takes on a new job with a start-up company that may or may not make it.

I do believe you should be commended on your reasoning for wanting to do this too. Anyone who wants to commit themselves to helping others is a truly good hearted person. I assume you have probably been like this much of your life and your parents know that it's in your nature to help others. That being the case, perhaps you might want to approach the subject to them with that as your focus and reason.

Ultimately, if this is your passion, I think you should go for it. But at the same time, do your part to be as safe as you can to help minimize the stress and worry of your parents.

Thank you very much. You're very sweet and I appreciate your help very much. Thanks again.

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