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Hello there :)

Have had my share of experiences with people and relationships.
Love to help anyone who needs any advice.
Trying to understand human relationships through constant interaction and undertanding of myself :)

Gender: Female
Location: india
Occupation: student
Age: 22
Member Since: September 12, 2014
Answers: 17
Last Update: May 25, 2015
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I have known this boy since elementary school and we are seniors in high school now. I never really liked him in this way until this year.. I sit at the same table with him And 3 other classmates with whom we share a friendship with that's hard to explain. One of my girlfriends at the table knows how I feel towards him And she notices how we fight like a married couple. I really like him And he talks to me like I'm his wife or something. We argue all the time but I think it's just a part of our chemistry. My question is how do I know if he really likes me the way I like him or if he's just joking all the time. By the way he's only dated white And Hispanic girls in the past And I'm African American And so is he. (link)
From what you have written here, he seems to be very comfortable with you. I'd like to know one thing though, is he this way with any of your other friends or just you?
If he is this way only with you, it is likely that he has feelings for you. And one of the signs that a guy likes you is when he teases you a lot and tries to make you smile all the time :)
So I'm guessing he likes you and if he is this way only with you.. It shows that he is really comfortable with you and wouldn't mind making
You his girl friend.
So you need to watch out for any signs where he hints that he wants something more than friendship. The fact that he has dated girls from other races shouldn't really be a problem. If he likes you then what race you belong to is immaterial :)
Try getting some alone time and see how things go with you, is he very protective or tries to spend more time with you alone or other wise are clear cut signs that he likes you. So watch out and pay aye attention to how he is around you.
Hope this helps.
Good luck :)


Rating: 5
Thank you that really helps me, and he is a down to earth person so he is like that with everyone it's not just me. But i believe I'm the only one who he jokes with about pretending to be married. Does that mean I'm special?... I hope 😌




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