Member Since: June 15, 2014
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Hey everyone, 17 y.o (female)
So I'm stuck between two guys. They're both one year younger. I've seen them both in person a handful of times. They do not know each other.
Guy A: he's very attractive. Has a nice body, nice smile, nice everything. He asked for my number but barely texts me, and when he does, it takes him hours to respond! He calls me once per day, but it's usually after midnight which bothers me a lot. We've talked like 2 times during daylight. Yes, I like late night phone calls but not all the time. Especially when I work, so I have to get up early. He told me his mother knows about me, but I don't really believe him. We have a lot in common, we both study accounting in High School, we're both the youngest in our families and we both are bilingual. I really liked him, up until he started calling at 1 a.m. and texting back after like two hours. He lives about an hour away, he did mention going out sometime but he's never taken initiative.
Guy B: attractive in that stubble-utterly-masculine way. He's so sweet it's crazy. We share opinions on everything and we talk about everything and anything. He has a job, so he understands that sometimes I'm dead tired and need to sleep. He's hilarious, always making me smile. We have this promise that we take turns texting each other because he feels like he's bothering me when he texts and I feel the same way. He recently opened up with me about his family, and it made me realize that he actually feels something towards me. He hasn't mentioned anything about meeting up yet. He lives like half an hour away btw.
It may seem obvious, "go with Guy B", but I do like Guy A as well. I've been friends with both guys for awhile, and it's not like I'm in a rush to get into a relationship. I haven't flirted too much with either of them because I need to get my feelings straight. I just want someone who'll want me in their life, someone who'll just take things slow with me and take initiative sometimes. What do you guys think? I feel like I'm in need of a second opinion. (link)
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It doesn't seem like the first guy is too interested in anything but a late night chat/sext/whatever. It also seems a little dodgy that he only calls at night? I would personally go with the second guy but really only you can make that call!
When I'm stuck with two options, I get a coin and call heads or tails for whichever option. If I call heads, get heads and am disappointed then I know to go with the tails option, does that make sense? Maybe talk to guy A and see what his intentions are (as to whether they match up to yours) and then make your decision!
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Rating: 5
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I see how the coin thing makes sense. If I picture choosing Guy A or Guy B then however I feel about it should be answer enough. Thank you!
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