Member Since: July 26, 2014
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Last Update: July 26, 2014
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Basically like 3 days ago I had sexual intercourse with my ex honestly I feel fucked up I feel like he's only nice to me till he gets what he wants and I'm the biggest idiot ever to go ahead and have sex with him. I feel used and hurt right now cause I know he doesn't want anything serious.. It's like whenever we speak it's sexual. We've been friends since we ended like over 2 years ago but we've only had sex twice since the breakup I honestly don't know what to do cause I feel like I'm emotionally and physically attached I feel so used I wanna cry cause I knew what I was getting myself into I don't know what to do (link)
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I totally understand and get what you're going through. I had basically the exact same relationship with my ex which thankfully ended about 8 months ago.
First, I want to let you know that you are WORTH IT and SPECIAL. It's very normal to feel the way you're feeling about him. You like being around him- it's comforting knowing that he's there. And you're obviously still attracted to him which is why you go ahead and become physical. Part of the reason you keep going back to him is that you still haven't accepted that he doesn't want you as something serious. Part of you has a little hope that maybe, just maybe, things could change.
What I'm telling you shouldn't come as a shock. You already know this. He will not change his mind. It doesn't matter how lucky he is to be with you. A guy like him only wants you for one thing.
Let me tell you, a guy who wants you to be his girlfriend will do everything to make you his. And one day some guy will come into your life and be everything that your ex isn't. He will appreciate you for the wonderful, beautiful girl that you are and will tell you all the time how lucky he is to be yours.
Right now, I encourage you to seek out a healthy relationship. Know that loving yourself and having a good support system help with stuff like this. Wishing you the best of luck!
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OMG thank you so much!! How sweet and supportive of you xxx
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