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Hi,

I see life simple and to the point. I love to live, seriously. I am a music aficionado and live a very positive life. My screen name says everything about how I want to be identified :) Being new to this site should not discourage you from sending me a personal question. All I do all day is focus my attention on customer satisfaction. With the free time I currently have there is plenty of time to advice others, maybe not every topic, but on topics that I can relate to or have experience with at my age. I am part of the positive bunch in my circle of friends and hang with like minded people.
I feel I have accomplished most of my dreams at my age. I grew up in a very impoverish neighborhood living with my mother and stepfather. By age 15 my goal was to be alive and see 19 to graduate high school. By 19 I wanted to be an Engineer. So I applied myself to prove those who had doubts about my goal. I was accepted to a university right out of high school and a few years later made my mother happy by graduating. The story goes on and there is more to my story but you get the point. We only limit ourselves to a certain extent. I know we can do better so don't give up. Make me proud! :)
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So my mom baffles me with her "hostile" behavior. It seems like she starts fights with people around her out of no where. She would lash out at people for no reason. Or yell at them for no reason. Sometimes she'll take the calmest situation and somehow transform it into a bloody battle. I HONESTLY have no idea why she acts that way to everyone around her. Would you know why she's like that? I really cannot understand why she acts that way. It's so baffling and mind boggling! I think she needs psychological help but she wouldn't believe that. Whenever we tell her to calm down or to be more understanding she just keeps acting hostile. Is it a mental problem? I need advice... I don't know what else to do or how else to talk to her. Anyone else's mom like mine? I just feel so heated right now... It's as if she's from another world where the notion of hostility has taken over her mind. (link)
Hi,
I'm no doctor but sounds like she might be going through something she is not sharing with you. There is no need to be angry at the world unless something bothering her. I hope she is okay but I recommend taking to her and digging deep into her mind. Finding inner peace could be tough, but with you in the picture being positive is one way to see it. Keep in mind this won't be easy but don't give up trying. :)


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Thanks. I'll try to talk to her.




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