Hey everyone!
I'm usually that friend everyone goes to for advice. (I'm also the one who gives good advice but doesn't apply it to herself, lol.) Whether I've been in your shoes, or know little of your situation I'll answer honestly and truthfully. I'm here to help.
Some background info for you guys: My parents are divorced. My mother's remarried. I have two older sisters, one with two boys. I'm a Senior in High School.
So go ahead, ask away!
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Basically, I had these 3friends in 8th grade and I was on a trip. My day was going really horrible. And I saw one of my "friends " was making fun of one of my favorite bands. So, I got really mad because she knew what they meant to me. They had helped me to try to stop cutting and to try to better myself. I was going through such a rough patch at that point of my life. I had no dad growing up and it was being constanly brought up. So, I started getting angry at my friend for saying all that bad stuff about the band. I told her off really bad. I told her "well your dad isn't any better he cheated on your mom. So he must not be content with you. With she replied by saying something among the lines "well at least he didn't leave me. You're pathetic " and so forth. Then, she made fun of my sexuality and about my cutting. That's when I completely snapped becausr she knew I was getting a lot about that at home with family(sexuality ). So I don't know what even caused me to say this but, I said "you're so pathetic maybe if you would be a better daughter your dad wouldn't have cheated on your mom to have other kids" . Then a couple of our friends heard the argument and started siding with her. And we're like attacking me verbally. Saying all this "well don't go home and try to kill yourself you lesbian bitch." to wich i replied "She should be the one that kills herself she's stupid and irrelevant. She is just as bad as me . I am a bitch but so is she . She always brought the bad things in my life. I had enouhht"And I got so angry and this fight carried on for about another hour or so. I just kept at it with them. And it turns out they might be going to a friend's party in 2weeks. I haven't seen them in about 10months. I'm scared about what's going to happen when I do see them again at the party. (link)
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How old are you?
If you're in a good mood, go to the party. Look amazing, dress amazing, feel amazing and just chit chat with your current friends but don't approach them. Ignore them unless they make some kind of effort to talk to you.
If they start insulting you again, just say, "It's sad that you guys are still holding a grudge after almost a year, grow up." and walk away. Don't stay for a fight, or a discussion. As soon as they start insulting or talking to you in a mean way, just say that and walk away.
If you're feeling a bit reluctant then I'm sure there will be other things to do than go to that party. If you're not ready to face them, or don't feel like facing them then don't. You really don't have to do anything about it. The friendship ended and that's that.
Whatever you do, please don't approach them. You don't know how they will react and if they're as immature as they sound then they will probably be holding that grudge pretty tightly. So just go with the flow and don't stress out!
Best of luck!
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I'm about to turn 15years old this month. Thank you for the good advice u really appreciate you going out of your way to try to help me with this problem.(:
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