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Member Since: July 4, 2014
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Last Update: July 4, 2014
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Lately my best friend has been getting more and more distant and I can't figure out how to talk to her. We've been best friends for 7 years and live in different states (I moved). We used to talk ALL the time, on IM and text and even email. However she is responding less and less. She says she needs space and I totally get that. However it's really hard to not have a best friend to talk to for weeks at a time. I try to reach out and ask her how things are and let her know she can talk to me anytime. I even sent her a really cool package that she loved. But after her excited thank you, she stopped texting. I think I've been pretty patient with her. I really want to tell her that I get she needs space, but sometimes I need to talk to people to get through things. I feel like lately I've gone through really tough times without her because I can't talk to her. It would be nice to be able to include her in my life. I don't know what to do...I want to let her deal with her issues, but I'd like her in my life too. (link)
Okay, so my best friend and I have become really distant too. I don't know what I did but she keeps saying it's my boyfriend. Do you ever talk about another friend a lot to her? You could also have done something before you moved that she didn't really like. Maybe she's sad BECAUSE you moved.


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We actually became extremely close after I moved which was 7 years ago. This past year though we've been drifting.




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